What constitutes sex for you?

afro-elf · 11-30-2003, 10:55 PM

Is it strictly coitus?

Or do other "sexual activities" count for you?

Insidious Rex · 11-30-2003, 11:03 PM

sustained penetration. everything else is sex PLAY.

***gdl96*** · 11-30-2003, 11:15 PM

"SEX" is a vague word. Do you mean sexual intercourse? Or do you want to include sexual acts?

Ruinel · 11-30-2003, 11:51 PM

IR, don't knock that "sex PLAY". That sex play is good stuff.

What constitutes "sex" to me? I'm with IR on that one, but I think oral sex also falls into that category.

afro-elf · 12-01-2003, 12:15 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by gdl96
"SEX" is a vague word. Do you mean sexual intercourse? Or do you want to include sexual acts?

That is why I posted this thread as a query.

Starr Polish · 12-01-2003, 01:40 AM

Interesting this has been brought up, because it's something I've been thinking about in the last couple of weeks.

I see anal, oral and vaginal sex as sex, and everything else is just play, or summat. However, oral sex, to me, isn't true loss of virginity, while the other two are.

However, I can't imagine having oral sex before actual sex (and thus, before marriage for me) because it seems just as, if not more, personal.

GrayMouser · 12-02-2003, 12:23 PM

In the immortal words of President Clinton... "I did not have sex with that woman.."

Coital, Oral, Anal count- the sin of Onan??? a maybe.

Beor · 12-02-2003, 01:28 PM

I'd say that anything physical that ones spouse could consider cheating is sex, because when else does it really matter. S&M counts too, really anything that gets you off. Not porn though. Physical contact type stuff. Oral, Anal, Coital, definitly.

Spock · 12-02-2003, 01:39 PM

It depends on what your definition of is, is.

Ruinel · 12-02-2003, 01:58 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Spock
It depends on what your definition of is, is.

That's why AE put the thread out here. He's asking what you define sex to be.

Spock · 12-02-2003, 02:05 PM

Yes I know and I replied to complement the other Clintonism.

Sex is any intimate contact between two people.
or in some places a person and an animal...

Ruinel · 12-02-2003, 02:08 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Spock
...or in some places a person and an animal...

eeeeewwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!

Captain Stern · 12-03-2003, 03:27 PM

In the immortal words of Jerry Seinfeld:

"When the nipple makes its appearance."

Spock · 12-03-2003, 03:38 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Ruinel
eeeeewwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!

Yeah, that kind of animal.

Gwaimir Windgem · 12-03-2003, 03:57 PM

I like Stern's; to me, really, anything beyond kissing or "necking" would qualify.

Gwaimir Windgem · 12-03-2003, 03:58 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Spock
Yeah, that kind of animal.

I'm gonna go with Ru here: ewwwwwwwwwwww!

But seriously, I don't think it's only that kind; I used to get junk mail about girls and horses all the time.

Ruinel · 12-03-2003, 04:24 PM

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Originally posted by Gwaimir Windgem
I'm gonna go with Ru here: ewwwwwwwwwwww! But seriously, I don't think it's only that kind; I used to get junk mail about girls and horses all the time.

That's sick! I used to be an equine veterinarian's assistant. I know how big those... errr... well... let's just say... it would be quite painful. O.o

Starr Polish · 12-03-2003, 04:57 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Spock
Sex is any intimate contact between two people.
or in some places a person and an animal...

Okay...on the latter thought. Yuck.

On the former: But what is intimate, and too waht point? Holding hands and hugging can be intimate, but "rounding second/third base" can be as well.

A lot of things that some people are constituting as "sex", well. I'd say if I participated in something further than kissing/"necking", ie second base or what have you, I'd still be a virgin, whether or not someone calls it sex.

Spock · 12-03-2003, 05:30 PM

..it depends on what the meaning of is is.......

***Sister Golden Hair*** · 12-03-2003, 06:29 PM

Um, yeah, um, let's keep it clean folks.

11-30-2003, 10:55 PM	#1
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11-30-2003, 11:03 PM	#2
Insidious Rex Quasi Evil Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Maryland, US Posts: 4,634	sustained penetration. everything else is sex PLAY. __________________ "People's political beliefs don't stem from the factual information they've acquired. Far more the facts people choose to believe are the product of their political beliefs." "Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere."

12-01-2003, 01:40 AM	#6
Starr Polish Elf Lord Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Slow down and I sail on the river, slow down and I walk to the hill Posts: 2,389	Interesting this has been brought up, because it's something I've been thinking about in the last couple of weeks. I see anal, oral and vaginal sex as sex, and everything else is just play, or summat. However, oral sex, to me, isn't true loss of virginity, while the other two are. However, I can't imagine having oral sex before actual sex (and thus, before marriage for me) because it seems just as, if not more, personal. __________________ “The whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, but wiser people so full of doubts.” –Bertrand Russell

12-02-2003, 12:23 PM	#7
GrayMouser Elf Lord Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Ilha Formosa Posts: 2,068	In the immortal words of President Clinton... "I did not have sex with that woman.." Coital, Oral, Anal count- the sin of Onan??? a maybe. __________________ Glendower: I can call spirits from the vasty deep. Hotspur: Why, so can I, or so can any man; But will they come when you do call for them? "I like pigs. Dogs look up to us, cats look down on us, but pigs treat us as equals."- Winston Churchill

12-02-2003, 01:28 PM	#8
Beor founder of the color blue Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: E-Space Posts: 1,727	I'd say that anything physical that ones spouse could consider cheating is sex, because when else does it really matter. S&M counts too, really anything that gets you off. Not porn though. Physical contact type stuff. Oral, Anal, Coital, definitly. __________________ Well, there it is.

11-30-2003, 11:15 PM	#3
*gdl96* the greg the admin Join Date: Sep 1999 Location: NJ Posts: 2,101	"SEX" is a vague word. Do you mean sexual intercourse? Or do you want to include sexual acts?

11-30-2003, 11:51 PM	#4
Ruinel Banned Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: I have no idea. Posts: 5,441	IR, don't knock that "sex PLAY". That sex play is good stuff. What constitutes "sex" to me? I'm with IR on that one, but I think oral sex also falls into that category.

12-02-2003, 01:39 PM	#9
Spock An enigma in a conundrum Join Date: Oct 1999 Posts: 6,476	It depends on what your definition of is, is. __________________ Vizzini: "HE DIDN'T FALL?! INCONCEIVABLE!!" Inigo: "You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means."

12-02-2003, 02:05 PM	#11
Spock An enigma in a conundrum Join Date: Oct 1999 Posts: 6,476	Yes I know and I replied to complement the other Clintonism. Sex is any intimate contact between two people. or in some places a person and an animal... __________________ Vizzini: "HE DIDN'T FALL?! INCONCEIVABLE!!" Inigo: "You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means."

12-03-2003, 03:27 PM	#13
Captain Stern Elven Warrior Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 319	In the immortal words of Jerry Seinfeld: "When the nipple makes its appearance." __________________ Then hate overcame Fëanor's fear, and he cursed Melkor and bade him be gone, saying 'Get thee gone from my gate, thou jail-crow of Mandos!' And he shut the doors of his house in the face of the mightiest of all dwellers in Eä.

12-03-2003, 03:57 PM	#15
Gwaimir Windgem Dread Mothy Lord and Halfwitted Apprentice Loremaster Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Thomas Aquinas College, Santa Paula, CA Posts: 10,820	I like Stern's; to me, really, anything beyond kissing or "necking" would qualify. __________________ Crux fidelis, inter omnes arbor una nobilis. Nulla talem silva profert, fronde, flore, germine. Dulce lignum, dulce clavo, dulce pondus sustinens. 'With a melon?' - Eric Idle

12-03-2003, 05:30 PM	#19
Spock An enigma in a conundrum Join Date: Oct 1999 Posts: 6,476	BACK TO THE BEGINNING ..it depends on what the meaning of is is....... __________________ Vizzini: "HE DIDN'T FALL?! INCONCEIVABLE!!" Inigo: "You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means."

12-03-2003, 06:29 PM	#20
*Sister Golden Hair* Queen of Nargothrond Administrator Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Akron, Ohio - USA Posts: 7,121	Um, yeah, um, let's keep it clean folks. __________________ "Whither go you?" she said. "North away." he said: "to the swords, and the siege, and the walls of defence - that yet for a while in Beleriand rivers may run clean, leaves spring, and birds build their nests, ere Night comes." AboutNewJersey.com - New Jersey Travel and Tourism Guide

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