What constitutes sex for you? - Page 7

Spock · 01-16-2004, 01:14 PM

It depends on what your definition of sex is.

Ruinel · 01-16-2004, 01:30 PM

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Originally posted by Spock
It depends on what your definition of sex is.

errrr... that's what the thread is about.... what you define sex to be...

What 'constitutes' sex to you... meaning ... what do you believe sex is made up of?

Spock · 01-16-2004, 01:34 PM

R- I understand but things seemed to have veered off into the sexual contact area. Sex is M-F-N sexual actions are broken down into contact types. So sex with a cigar for some is not sex nor is oral sex, sex for some.
IMO Sexual actions occur whenever two people touch intimately in any manner. It's that simple.

Ruinel · 01-16-2004, 01:37 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Spock
R- I understand but things seemed to have veered off into the sexual contact area. Sex is M-F-N sexual actions are broken down into contact types. So sex with a cigar for some is not sex nor is oral sex, sex for some.
IMO Sexual actions occur whenever two people touch intimately in any manner. It's that simple.

What is "M-F-N"?

What if you have sex with yourself?

Spock · 01-16-2004, 01:47 PM

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Originally posted by Ruinel
What is "M-F-N"?
MALE/FEMALE/NEUTER as defined in basic biology.

What if you have sex with yourself?

You can't have sex with yourself. You are a sex.

You can experience a sexual reaction from autoerotism which is defined as:

1 : sexual feeling arising without known external stimulation

2 : sexual gratification obtained solely through stimulation by oneself of one's own body

Ruinel · 01-16-2004, 02:59 PM

"to have sex with" [oneself/others] is what I'm talking about... which you are referring to as "a sexual reaction".

Spock · 01-16-2004, 03:08 PM

I give up.
Everyone has their own definitions and I've given mine. Now if you think you can have sex with yourself that's fine.

.....If you're bi-sexual you automatically increase your chances of a date on Saturday night...lWoody Allen

Ruinel · 01-16-2004, 03:16 PM

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Originally posted by Spock

I give up.
Everyone has their own definitions and I've given mine. Now if you think you can have sex with yourself that's fine.

I was just showing you that I think we mean the same thing.

Spock · 01-16-2004, 03:22 PM

Ruinel · 01-16-2004, 03:36 PM

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Originally posted by Spock
OH

What? Were we NOT talking about the same thing?

Spock · 01-16-2004, 03:44 PM

stop, cease and desist, you win, I give up, no more, UNCLE, I'll have sex with you and you can have sex with yourself but I can't reslove the differences in definition or personal acceptance of those definitions.

...this is not an indecent proposal.....

***Valandil*** · 01-16-2004, 03:51 PM

Hi, uh... Spock. Not sure if this is the right thread to ask, but you HAVE been hanging around here a lot...

How's married life??

Three weeks now? Did you go on a Honeymoon someplace?

(did the rest of you even KNOW about this???

)

Ruinel · 01-16-2004, 03:53 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Spock
stop, cease and desist, you win, I give up, no more, UNCLE, I'll have sex with you and you can have sex with yourself but I can't reslove the differences in definition or personal acceptance of those definitions.
...this is not an indecent proposal.....

Yay! I won!

*begins to takes Spock into the back room...*

hey... wait a minute....

Ruinel · 01-16-2004, 03:54 PM

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Originally posted by Valandil
Hi, uh... Spock. Not sure if this is the right thread to ask, but you HAVE been hanging around here a lot...

How's married life?? Three weeks now? Did you go on a Honeymoon someplace?

(did the rest of you even KNOW about this??? )

No we didn't.

Congradulations

Spock · 01-16-2004, 03:57 PM

R- I'm flattered

V- yep, but not dead

The discussion with R was very stimulating and I enjoy exchanging ideas and viewpoints with someone as articulate as she.
The Caribbean was home to both the ceremony and after. It was just perfect with 90 degrees and unending food and drink.

***Valandil*** · 01-16-2004, 04:01 PM

Time to change you title, Spock?

I think you have become an enigma!

Spock · 01-16-2004, 04:09 PM

Hows that?

"If the giving of information is to be the cure of your inquisitiveness, I shall spend all the rest of my days in answering you." Gandalf to Pippin

***Valandil*** · 01-16-2004, 04:10 PM

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Originally posted by Valandil
Time to change you title, Spock?

I think you have become an enigma!

Don't worry, I meant that in the best possible way!

(EDIT: I DID see the change you made already... cute! Can you do that yourself, or was it a highly responsive act by an admin or mod?)

Snowdog · 01-16-2004, 04:20 PM

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what if the guy doesn't climax/orgasm? If he's still penetrated, doesn't that mean he's had sex?

Well I wouldn't know about being penetrated since I'm not gay.

OH! You mean if the guy penetrates the girl!

Well, I've had some great sex by not getting off... the sex lasts sooo much longer and it pleases the lady more.

So Sopck got married? well, maybe he has to wait for ponfar ( or whatever the 7 year cycle is called)???

Seriously, (choose one) Congratulations/Condloences Spock!

Spock · 01-16-2004, 04:28 PM

OH! You mean if the guy penetrates the girl!

Well, I've had some great sex by not getting off... the sex lasts sooo much longer and it pleases the lady more.
ABSOLUTELY CORRECT. CONSIDER YOUR PARTNER BEFORE YOURSELF AND IT WILL BE A BETTER EXPERIENCE FOR YOU BOTH.

So Sopck got married? well, maybe he has to wait for ponfar ( or whatever the 7 year cycle is called)??? SO WHY D0 YOU THINK I DID IT? OF COURSE IT WAS PON FAR.

Seriously, (choose one) Congratulations Spock! [/B][/QUOTE]

01-16-2004, 01:14 PM	#121
Spock An enigma in a conundrum Join Date: Oct 1999 Posts: 6,476	It depends on what your definition of sex is. __________________ Vizzini: "HE DIDN'T FALL?! INCONCEIVABLE!!" Inigo: "You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means."

01-16-2004, 01:34 PM	#123
Spock An enigma in a conundrum Join Date: Oct 1999 Posts: 6,476	I DO UNDERSTAND R- I understand but things seemed to have veered off into the sexual contact area. Sex is M-F-N sexual actions are broken down into contact types. So sex with a cigar for some is not sex nor is oral sex, sex for some. IMO Sexual actions occur whenever two people touch intimately in any manner. It's that simple. __________________ Vizzini: "HE DIDN'T FALL?! INCONCEIVABLE!!" Inigo: "You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means."

01-16-2004, 03:08 PM	#127
Spock An enigma in a conundrum Join Date: Oct 1999 Posts: 6,476	I give up. Everyone has their own definitions and I've given mine. Now if you think you can have sex with yourself that's fine. .....If you're bi-sexual you automatically increase your chances of a date on Saturday night...lWoody Allen __________________ Vizzini: "HE DIDN'T FALL?! INCONCEIVABLE!!" Inigo: "You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means."

01-16-2004, 03:22 PM	#129
Spock An enigma in a conundrum Join Date: Oct 1999 Posts: 6,476	OH __________________ Vizzini: "HE DIDN'T FALL?! INCONCEIVABLE!!" Inigo: "You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means."

01-16-2004, 03:44 PM	#131
Spock An enigma in a conundrum Join Date: Oct 1999 Posts: 6,476	stop, cease and desist, you win, I give up, no more, UNCLE, I'll have sex with you and you can have sex with yourself but I can't reslove the differences in definition or personal acceptance of those definitions. ...this is not an indecent proposal..... __________________ Vizzini: "HE DIDN'T FALL?! INCONCEIVABLE!!" Inigo: "You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means."

01-16-2004, 02:59 PM	#126
Ruinel Banned Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: I have no idea. Posts: 5,441	"to have sex with" [oneself/others] is what I'm talking about... which you are referring to as "a sexual reaction".

01-16-2004, 03:51 PM	#132
*Valandil* High King at Annuminas Administrator Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Wyoming - USA Posts: 10,752	Hi, uh... Spock. Not sure if this is the right thread to ask, but you HAVE been hanging around here a lot... How's married life?? Three weeks now? Did you go on a Honeymoon someplace? (did the rest of you even KNOW about this??? )

01-16-2004, 03:57 PM	#135
Spock An enigma in a conundrum Join Date: Oct 1999 Posts: 6,476	R- I'm flattered V- yep, but not dead The discussion with R was very stimulating and I enjoy exchanging ideas and viewpoints with someone as articulate as she. The Caribbean was home to both the ceremony and after. It was just perfect with 90 degrees and unending food and drink. __________________ Vizzini: "HE DIDN'T FALL?! INCONCEIVABLE!!" Inigo: "You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means."

01-16-2004, 04:01 PM	#136
*Valandil* High King at Annuminas Administrator Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Wyoming - USA Posts: 10,752	Time to change you title, Spock? I think you have become an enigma!

01-16-2004, 04:09 PM	#137
Spock An enigma in a conundrum Join Date: Oct 1999 Posts: 6,476	Hows that? "If the giving of information is to be the cure of your inquisitiveness, I shall spend all the rest of my days in answering you." Gandalf to Pippin Last edited by Spock : 01-16-2004 at 04:10 PM.

01-16-2004, 04:28 PM	#140
Spock An enigma in a conundrum Join Date: Oct 1999 Posts: 6,476	OH! You mean if the guy penetrates the girl! Well, I've had some great sex by not getting off... the sex lasts sooo much longer and it pleases the lady more. ABSOLUTELY CORRECT. CONSIDER YOUR PARTNER BEFORE YOURSELF AND IT WILL BE A BETTER EXPERIENCE FOR YOU BOTH. So Sopck got married? well, maybe he has to wait for ponfar ( or whatever the 7 year cycle is called)??? SO WHY D0 YOU THINK I DID IT? OF COURSE IT WAS PON FAR. Seriously, (choose one) Congratulations Spock! [/B][/QUOTE]

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