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What constitutes infidelity to you?
Is it strickly coitus?
Or going to a strip club ( male or female)? Flirting?
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Sex..you're dead meat, history. Strip club...well, dog house with scathing looks for a good three days. (If going to the strip club was your idea, there's a BIG problem.
![]() ![]() ![]() All of those are "sorts" of infidelity to me. I have high standards for the man in my life. ( and I hold to those high standards myself) Define flirting anyway! What exactly do you mean? I will tolerate "reflex flirting". This type of uncontrollable flirting is sometimes unavoidable. I am a natural flirt (lightweight, meaningless stuff) so I simply avoid situations where I am alone with other men....socially. After being a harcore, successful ( ![]() ![]() ![]() Of course...if you are inclined to do serious flirting with other women, on MY time, please do it, and do it soon...so I can quit wasting my precious time on you. ![]()
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Sex - of course, but I would also characterise emotional involvement with another person behind my back as infidelity. Strip club visits are harmless. Flirting is just for fun and keeps us both on our toes.
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Ok, what'd you do?
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Is flirting ever harmless? I dont mind Vita flirting with people as a rule i just dont like it when she talks to some men because some of these men i would not rust as far as i could throw them. But i trust her so it isnt too much of an issue.
Strip club? That aint cheating of infedility, thats good quality entertainment ![]()
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Recently a newspaper had a big online poll about infidelity with over 20,000 participants.
One of the questions was "what kind of infidelity would make you leave your partner?". A lot of things were listed, like cyber sex and flirting with a colleague or friend. The results of the poll showed that 45% of the men and 62% of the women (Swedes of the age 36-35) didn't accept any kind of infidelity. Does that mean they would they leave their partner because of the 'smallest kind' of infidelity? ![]() Another question was "what kind of infidelity would /not/ make you leave your partner?". To this question, 40% of the men and 57% of the women answered the same thing as to the first question, i.e. they don't accept any kind of infidelity. Flirting via SMS was one of the options that you could pick. So together with all other imaginable kinds of infidelity, this is a reason for leaving your partner? ![]() I think that the poll questions were very vague. To not accept any kind of infidelity is one thing. To /leave/ your partner because of infidelity is another. I believe the poll results are quite misleading. In case you can read Swedish, you can read the poll results or even take part in it here at Aftonbladet
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I wouldn't consider a strip club to be infidelity. I would consider infidelity more physical contact - or flirting where you are actually "looking for some action". Cybering can be infidelity.
Afro Elf - what do you consider infidelity? You asked the question and then don't answer. ![]()
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Damn, if i get done for flirting then my missus will kick my arse from here to Ya Ya. Is it like murder, where intent gets you into trouble? But seriously, is it more like window shoppping, where it's okay as long as you don't buy anything?
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im quite stupid
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I think what i really consider cheating is acting upon it. I mean its ok to fancy another person or be attracted to them. Hell ill admit i fancy lots of people im attracted to a lot of people and i sure as hell dont believe that there isnt plenty of people out there that we can be in love with. I mean honestally how many people do we come into contact with in our lives? A very small percentages of whats out there. I mean im from a small town so i dont know that many people. But the people i do know i know well.
Been in a realtionship really isnt a natral state for a human to be in! Well not a maole at any rate ![]()
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