03-27-2005, 04:01 PM | #1 | ||
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When Real Life Meets the Internet
My main reason for starting this thread is: have you ever met one of your on-line buddies in real life? I personally have never done this, and actually feel a bit shy about it. However, Jonathan and I are going to have a fika in Stockholm (if I can get there ). Jerseydevil and Ruinel have met in person as well.
What do you feel about meeting on-line buddies in person? Have you done this with any Mooters? From another hobby of mine (reading Lord of the Rings fanfiction), I can see another place where real life might meet the internet, but this time in reverse. I'll summarize some of my fanfic reading experience. There is a lot of utter canon-mangling rubbish out there. Everything from the spelling and grammer to the characterization and plot could be total crap in a story, but still the author will probably get at least a few people telling them the story was great, and to write more. If someone does say the story is crap, possible author responses include some very childish methods like starting a flame war, trolling, or spamming the reviewer's inbox. In real life, it is highly unlikely that total crap would get praise. Also, spamming and trollery wouldn't be possible, or at least would be considered socially unacceptable. It seems like the internet is a society unto itself. It even has its own languages! (HTML, or AOL-speak...) How and when have you observed the two societies of real life and the internet interacting, and what was the results? All thoughts are appreciated. Perhaps I've left out some other manifestation of real life (RL)-internet interactions. If so, I'd like to hear about them!
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03-27-2005, 04:12 PM | #2 |
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I see no difference in internet friends and real life friends. Everyone in life is a stranger until you talk to them and get to know them. Some people on the net I have gotten to know - and I do consider them friends. I also don't see much difference in this than back in the days when people like Thomas Jefferson would be "introduced" to someone who he had never met, but through a mutual friend, and would carry on a correspondence. Many times they would later meet when he would invite them to Monticello.
Some people know they have a standiong invitation to stay at my place and that I would love to show them around. I just consider some net friends to be friends and don't look at them anymore as being restricted to just the net. Obviously just like with real friends - some you are closer to than others.
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03-27-2005, 05:34 PM | #4 | |
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I especially liked the "Discussing Politics" part, boy did I laugh
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03-27-2005, 05:52 PM | #5 |
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there are a number of people that i know in real life that i IM with, but no one i know in real life started out as a internet friend, i would like to meet all of my mates ere on t'moot, of course, everyone is so interesting, and whilst we may not always agree, i like everyone, so anyone travelling near bridgwater, stop by my place
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03-27-2005, 06:09 PM | #6 | |
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As for the video - I have to agree with Jonathan. That politics part was hilarious and pretty true. Although - if people are really on very opposing sides - sometimes it's best not to discuss politics at all among friends. Anyway - Ruinel wasn't the first person I met off the net. I met my friend Olga (who I haven't talked to in a long time). She was from Moscow and moved to the US after we had started e-mailing each other. The week she moved to LA - I flew to LA to take her around to various places. We had a great time. Although it was funny when I picked her up to go to Seaworld and she's dressed up - instead of just wearing jeans and t-shirt and dressing casual. She now dresses much more casual than what she once did.
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03-27-2005, 06:49 PM | #9 |
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yeh, Som is short for somerset, but we don't put the E in bridgwater, dunno why tho...
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03-27-2005, 07:49 PM | #10 |
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I've met a couple of friends from the net, not anyone from the moot though..
I know that I might be more open on the net than in rl.. Especially when it comes to people I don't know. Well, my experiences have been very good, and now those people I met feel more real.. Sometimes talking to people on the other side of the planet may make me forget that they are real - it feels like sometimes the idea one gets from the net-friends' life is so limited. (i hope i'm making sense - it's getting too late here XD) And that video was great! Especially the politics part and that about parties..^^
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03-27-2005, 08:56 PM | #11 |
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hahaha i live about half an hour away from bridgewater too, Bridgewater Vic, although im sure yours isnt a rural town where the most exciting thing that ever happened was an orange truck rolling
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03-27-2005, 10:20 PM | #13 |
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I've met somebody. All I'm going to say is that it's a very, very bad idea.
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I should post that I probably do things that most people won't do though. The one time when I was managing my mother's bookstore after she died, there was this 17 year old who always came in the store. He actually lived an hour away - and he basically was living on the streets of Seymour. He came in and said how he had no where to go and no food to eat - and his clothes were so dirty - as was he. I told him to come back around 5:30.
He came back and since the homeless shelter was closed, I told him he could stay at my place for the night and I'd take him to get some new clothes. So I got him clothes, got him food, he got to have a shower and then in the morning I took him to the shelter where they help people in his situation. It might have been stupid - but I couldn't see him sleeping outside again (although I hadn't known he was sleeping outside, until he had told me).
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03-28-2005, 12:31 AM | #18 |
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I think it would be pretty kick ass to have a real life moot sometime. I wanted to go on an entmoot european tour after I returned from Iraq, being as I lived in Germany and all, but the funding never worked out, and transportation became a problem. Also, there were some beaurocratic issues I had to deal with.
Still, I think I would be pretty awesome to meet yall.
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