What DO women really want? - Page 9

Ararax · 03-12-2002, 12:48 PM

my bad my thought was it sucks to have that happen to you, imho though she was being immature and should look at the inside of a person

**crickhollow** · 03-12-2002, 12:54 PM

I answered it, but that was a couple of pages ago, and I don't blame you for not wanting to sort through.

Time=Relationship

The amount of time you spend with a person of the opposite sex determines how deep the friendship will go. Just be careful how much time alone time you spend together. I believe you can be friends with someone of the opposite sex without letting sex get in the way.

Ararax · 03-12-2002, 12:56 PM

yea i think it can happen but you have to be careful

Kyote Fields · 03-12-2002, 12:57 PM

I accually have read every post, but after a while they tend to blur.

**crickhollow** · 03-12-2002, 01:00 PM

Quote:

I accually have read every post, but after a while they tend to blur.

I call it the Paul Harvey effect. "And now, page 52." "Good day."

Ararax · 03-12-2002, 01:01 PM

lol true its hard to remember who said what in a 100+ post thread

Nibs · 03-12-2002, 01:08 PM

All my beliefs on this matter are just extensions of my religious roots. In an effort to keep one of those arguments from surfacing, I'll just say it's clear that every one has varying degrees of opinion, with or without religious beliefs. On one side of the gamut we have the totally open-minded individuals that consider it a natural life process. On the other, we have the completely abstinent group.

Who is to say the other is wrong? No mere human

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Ararax · 03-12-2002, 01:11 PM

i say faith in humanity is hopless but the only way to be happy

Darth Tater · 03-12-2002, 02:38 PM

I think that, in a friendship with a member of the opposite sex, some attraction will always exist at one point or another. However, this can be a way for the friendship to grow, if you choose not to act on it because you don't want to lose what you have or because you are already with someone.
I think it's really useful to have female friends, because then you can get a perspective from the other side, which is definately a must!

Ararax · 03-12-2002, 02:49 PM

female friends are awesome, *ararax trying to score points with the female crowd*

FrodoFriend · 03-12-2002, 02:57 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by crickhollow

1. One-night stands involve emotions.
2.Boyfriends who use their girlfriends. The boyfriends may be using, but there still may be emotions on the girl's side.
3. Girlfriends who use their boyfriends. ditto.
4. Rebellion. It would be interesting to find a statistic that tells how many teens come together as mature minors, fully aware of what they are doing, to have sex purely as a spite to their parents, with no feelings or emotions toward the other of any kind.

I don'tk now, crickhollow. In some cases, these points are true, under others they're not. Unfortunately, I happen to know people who have sex simply for the fun of having sex, and don't care who their partner is. Some of these people I know very well, so I know what they real feel about the issue - which is nothing. So I feel pretty confident in saying that sometimes sex and emotion do not go together.

And on numbers 2 & 3: the issue was whether or not sex can be separated from emotion. Since in the offending boyfriend or girlfriend's case it is, it doesn't matter what the other partner thinks in terms of proving the point. There is still one person who has no emotional attachment.

**crickhollow** · 03-12-2002, 03:07 PM

perhaps, then, I ought to have clarified what I was asking from you, which was a scenario where emotions are not involved on EITHER side. However, maybe we should just agree to disagree on this subject.

FrodoFriend · 03-12-2002, 03:25 PM

Agreed.

Besides, we all know what women really want . . . free tickets to the premieres of The Two Towers and Return of the King! Woohoo! And free tickets to The Who and Counting Crows in San Fransisco! At least, that's what I want.

Forget dating, I'd rather have a life . . .

**crickhollow** · 03-12-2002, 03:35 PM

Nine months seems like such a long ways away! I'll break it down into smaller periods. first: Re-release of FOTR, end of the month! Second: School is done end of April. Third: Harry Potter comes out on video/dvd end of May!

Laurelyn · 03-12-2002, 03:43 PM

Gollywinkies, this thread got long, really, really quickly!!!

Yep, FF: We all want ticket to Rotk and TTT!!!

And as for the sex before marriage debate: I think that it's up to people to chose what they want to do with their virginity. But I don't think people should judge someone on past mistakes. Anything and anyone can change: the bully of second grade can become the sweetest boy of the lot, the rapist who got ten years in jail might become a monk.

Quote:

Time pauses never for anyone
Never to stop and pick up something you’ve forgotten
Never to undo something that’s been done.

I myself intend to stay virgin and never marry, but to each his own.
La carita i hamil mara alasaila na!

Arathorn · 03-12-2002, 04:24 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by crickhollow
Nine months seems like such a long ways away!

Just be careful these days. I don't think anyone here would want to go into labor come December.

And I agree with Laurelyn; because I believe that God forgives.

Kyote Fields · 03-12-2002, 04:27 PM

Amen!! Preach it!! *waves hanky in the air*

Arian · 03-12-2002, 04:31 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Darth Tater
I think that, in a friendship with a member of the opposite sex, some attraction will always exist at one point or another. However, this can be a way for the friendship to grow, if you choose not to act on it because you don't want to lose what you have or because you are already with someone.
I think it's really useful to have female friends, because then you can get a perspective from the other side, which is definately a must!

Well spoken Tater.

Darth Tater · 03-12-2002, 06:04 PM

Actually, it was typed, but thanks

**crickhollow** · 03-12-2002, 06:10 PM

Quote:

Just be careful these days. I don't think anyone here would want to go into labor come December

That's not what I meant, and you know it! However, if taken out of the context of the previous two messages, and inserted randomly into the sex debate of the previous three pages, I can see how the meaning might be misconstrued. What are you trying to do, boost me up onto Mary's pedastal?

03-12-2002, 12:48 PM	#161
Ararax Elven Warrior Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: NEW JERSEY! Posts: 375	my bad my thought was it sucks to have that happen to you, imho though she was being immature and should look at the inside of a person __________________ Woah Deep

03-12-2002, 12:54 PM	#162
crickhollow The Buckleberry Fairy/Captain Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Washington State again (I miss Texas). Posts: 1,345	I answered it, but that was a couple of pages ago, and I don't blame you for not wanting to sort through. Time=Relationship The amount of time you spend with a person of the opposite sex determines how deep the friendship will go. Just be careful how much time alone time you spend together. I believe you can be friends with someone of the opposite sex without letting sex get in the way. __________________ A day will come at last when I Shall take the hidden paths that run West of the Moon, East of the Sun.

03-12-2002, 12:56 PM	#163
Ararax Elven Warrior Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: NEW JERSEY! Posts: 375	yea i think it can happen but you have to be careful __________________ Woah Deep

03-12-2002, 12:57 PM	#164
Kyote Fields Elven Warrior Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: California Posts: 218	I accually have read every post, but after a while they tend to blur. __________________ No longer posting. If you'd like to write to me I can be reached at kyote_fields@hotmail.com. It was nice knowing all of you.

03-12-2002, 01:01 PM	#166
Ararax Elven Warrior Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: NEW JERSEY! Posts: 375	lol true its hard to remember who said what in a 100+ post thread __________________ Woah Deep

03-12-2002, 01:08 PM	#167
Nibs Head Hollara Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Texas Posts: 751	All my beliefs on this matter are just extensions of my religious roots. In an effort to keep one of those arguments from surfacing, I'll just say it's clear that every one has varying degrees of opinion, with or without religious beliefs. On one side of the gamut we have the totally open-minded individuals that consider it a natural life process. On the other, we have the completely abstinent group. Who is to say the other is wrong? No mere human . __________________ "People used to ring up and say 'Don't quit your day job' or 'sell your synth', but the joke's on them: we were fired and the synth is broken!" -John Flansburgh from They Might Be Giants Ever heard of Mormons? I'm one. Click here to know more about us.

03-12-2002, 01:11 PM	#168
Ararax Elven Warrior Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: NEW JERSEY! Posts: 375	i say faith in humanity is hopless but the only way to be happy __________________ Woah Deep

03-12-2002, 02:38 PM	#169
Darth Tater The man Join Date: Sep 1999 Location: MA Posts: 4,572	I think that, in a friendship with a member of the opposite sex, some attraction will always exist at one point or another. However, this can be a way for the friendship to grow, if you choose not to act on it because you don't want to lose what you have or because you are already with someone. I think it's really useful to have female friends, because then you can get a perspective from the other side, which is definately a must! __________________ Visit the worlds greatest webpage! No, not The Tolkien Trail! Just click this! The Tolkien Trail ~Camelot

03-12-2002, 02:49 PM	#170
Ararax Elven Warrior Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: NEW JERSEY! Posts: 375	female friends are awesome, ararax trying to score points with the female crowd __________________ Woah Deep

03-12-2002, 03:07 PM	#172
crickhollow The Buckleberry Fairy/Captain Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Washington State again (I miss Texas). Posts: 1,345	perhaps, then, I ought to have clarified what I was asking from you, which was a scenario where emotions are not involved on EITHER side. However, maybe we should just agree to disagree on this subject. __________________ A day will come at last when I Shall take the hidden paths that run West of the Moon, East of the Sun.

03-12-2002, 03:25 PM	#173
FrodoFriend Halfwitted Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: Eryn Vorn Posts: 1,659	Agreed. Besides, we all know what women really want . . . free tickets to the premieres of The Two Towers and Return of the King! Woohoo! And free tickets to The Who and Counting Crows in San Fransisco! At least, that's what I want. Forget dating, I'd rather have a life . . . __________________ Fingolfin lives! ... in my finger! The Crossroads of Arda - Warning. Halfwit content. Not appropriate for people with IQ of over 18. The Fellowship of the Message Board Nyáréonié - The Tale of Tears

03-12-2002, 03:35 PM	#174
crickhollow The Buckleberry Fairy/Captain Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Washington State again (I miss Texas). Posts: 1,345	Nine months seems like such a long ways away! I'll break it down into smaller periods. first: Re-release of FOTR, end of the month! Second: School is done end of April. Third: Harry Potter comes out on video/dvd end of May! __________________ A day will come at last when I Shall take the hidden paths that run West of the Moon, East of the Sun.

03-12-2002, 04:27 PM	#177
Kyote Fields Elven Warrior Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: California Posts: 218	Amen!! Preach it!! waves hanky in the air __________________ No longer posting. If you'd like to write to me I can be reached at kyote_fields@hotmail.com. It was nice knowing all of you.

03-12-2002, 06:04 PM	#179
Darth Tater The man Join Date: Sep 1999 Location: MA Posts: 4,572	Actually, it was typed, but thanks __________________ Visit the worlds greatest webpage! No, not The Tolkien Trail! Just click this! The Tolkien Trail ~Camelot

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