What DO women really want? - Page 7

Rána Eressëa · 03-11-2002, 10:32 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by CardenIAntauraNauco
Honestly would you want to get married to a girl that had slept with other guys.

Ahem, and why didn't you also say, "would you want to get married to a guy that had slept with other girls"?

Ararax · 03-11-2002, 10:35 PM

another good reason to wait heck you never want to narrow down your picks, imagin meeting the most awesome girl and shen wont marry anyone whos not a virgin wouldnt that suck

Wayfarer · 03-11-2002, 10:36 PM

or you could say:

Would you want your significant other to have other significant others?

Gender neutral, alliterative, and catchy.

Darth Tater · 03-11-2002, 10:37 PM

You tell em Rouge!

Wayfarer · 03-11-2002, 10:38 PM

I think it's happened to me a few times now...

One of my best friends actually has an application for people who want to date her. It's put together and enforced by her father (who I think scares everyboy but me).

Rána Eressëa · 03-11-2002, 10:43 PM

What if they were past significant others? It shouldn't matter then. I don't know why people must find it so offensive that they might have been with someone else. It's possessive, judging something you know nothing about, and just a wrong way to measure love. You shouldn't base your love for someone on how many people they've jumped in the sack with. Having past significant others is way different from having multiple partners at once.

Ararax · 03-11-2002, 10:47 PM

thats my point you cant say oh you screwed up now ill never consider you, thats just stupid

Wayfarer · 03-11-2002, 10:50 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Rogue Elf
You shouldn't base your love for someone on how many people they've jumped in the sack with.

What about judging thier commitment to you?

Rána Eressëa · 03-11-2002, 10:53 PM

Okay, I think you're phrasing it now in terms of "cheating", Wayfarer. That's different than having past relationships, which is what I'm referring to.

Ararax · 03-11-2002, 10:54 PM

as for judgeing their comittment thats up to you, but saying someone who messed up wen they were young has less comittment then someone who hasnt is ridiculous because their people and their all individuals its about happyness and people not rules

Wayfarer · 03-11-2002, 10:54 PM

Nope. When you sleep with someone you violate your commitment to your future spouse.

Ararax · 03-11-2002, 10:57 PM

i agree if you know that and think that way but, if someone makes mistakes it shouldnt be held against them

Rána Eressëa · 03-11-2002, 11:11 PM

Well, I'll just let someone else debate over that because obviously I don't think the same way as you do, Wayfarer. I don't believe past issues should be judged for future references because people can change. People make mistakes and people make errors, and that's part of the irreversible human nature.

Darth Tater · 03-11-2002, 11:15 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Wayfarer
Nope. When you sleep with someone you violate your commitment to your future spouse.

BULL! BULL BULL BULL BULL BULL!!!! You can fall out of love, it's true. And if that happens does it mean you can't love again? No! But it also doesn't mean it was wrong to act on your love in the first place!

Ararax · 03-11-2002, 11:18 PM

if you believe that to violate your own morals would be evil but you can only judge your self to judge anyone else is pointless and only invites error since we do not know the reasons behind what we see, so i will not judge anyone but as long as the person i marry loves me i cant ask for more cause there is no more to give

Arian · 03-11-2002, 11:26 PM

Well, Tater, it's true you can fall in love again. But when guy/girl breaks up with you or it was a hard relionship (sp??) then maybe you don't want to go out with guys/girls for a long time. But yes u do fall in love.

Ararax · 03-11-2002, 11:30 PM

takes me about 15 minutes afterwards to develope a crush but about 2-6 months to fall in love again

Arian · 03-11-2002, 11:35 PM

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Originally posted by Ararax
takes me about 15 minutes afterwards to develope a crush but about 2-6 months to fall in love again

lol. You sound like me now. My friend should know. *Laugh.* Well instead my crush lastest about 2-8 months.

Ararax · 03-11-2002, 11:37 PM

lol crushes last a couple of weeks love last at least a month

FrodoFriend · 03-11-2002, 11:42 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Wayfarer
Nope. When you sleep with someone you violate your commitment to your future spouse.

What if you don't get married? Nowadays not everyone does, you know. I'm not planning on marriage, personally; if I meet some one I truly love I will marry them (providing they feel they same way), but I'm not taking it for granted. What if you never meet your true love? What if you never get married? Should you never have sex? Sorry, but I have to agree with RE and Tater on this one.

There's nothing wrong with sex. It's not shameful, and it doesn't always imply emotional attachment either. It's biological as well as emotional. Why would I be upset if my husband had slept with other people in the past? It simply proves that he's both loving and natural. I would not use my significant other's past relationships to judge his character.

03-11-2002, 10:35 PM	#122
Ararax Elven Warrior Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: NEW JERSEY! Posts: 375	another good reason to wait heck you never want to narrow down your picks, imagin meeting the most awesome girl and shen wont marry anyone whos not a virgin wouldnt that suck __________________ Woah Deep

03-11-2002, 10:36 PM	#123
Wayfarer The Insufferable Join Date: Aug 2001 Posts: 3,333	or you could say: *Would you want your* significant other to have other significant others?** Gender neutral, alliterative, and catchy. __________________ Disgraced he may be, yet is not dethroned, and keeps the rags of lordship once he owned

03-11-2002, 10:37 PM	#124
Darth Tater The man Join Date: Sep 1999 Location: MA Posts: 4,572	You tell em Rouge! __________________ Visit the worlds greatest webpage! No, not The Tolkien Trail! Just click this! The Tolkien Trail ~Camelot

03-11-2002, 10:38 PM	#125
Wayfarer The Insufferable Join Date: Aug 2001 Posts: 3,333	I think it's happened to me a few times now... One of my best friends actually has an application for people who want to date her. It's put together and enforced by her father (who I think scares everyboy but me). __________________ Disgraced he may be, yet is not dethroned, and keeps the rags of lordship once he owned

03-11-2002, 10:43 PM	#126
Rána Eressëa The Rogue Elf Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 1,722	What if they were past significant others? It shouldn't matter then. I don't know why people must find it so offensive that they might have been with someone else. It's possessive, judging something you know nothing about, and just a wrong way to measure love. You shouldn't base your love for someone on how many people they've jumped in the sack with. Having past significant others is way different from having multiple partners at once. Last edited by Rána Eressëa : 03-11-2002 at 10:48 PM.

03-11-2002, 10:47 PM	#127
Ararax Elven Warrior Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: NEW JERSEY! Posts: 375	thats my point you cant say oh you screwed up now ill never consider you, thats just stupid __________________ Woah Deep

03-11-2002, 10:53 PM	#129
Rána Eressëa The Rogue Elf Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 1,722	Okay, I think you're phrasing it now in terms of "cheating", Wayfarer. That's different than having past relationships, which is what I'm referring to.

03-11-2002, 10:54 PM	#130
Ararax Elven Warrior Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: NEW JERSEY! Posts: 375	as for judgeing their comittment thats up to you, but saying someone who messed up wen they were young has less comittment then someone who hasnt is ridiculous because their people and their all individuals its about happyness and people not rules __________________ Woah Deep

03-11-2002, 10:54 PM	#131
Wayfarer The Insufferable Join Date: Aug 2001 Posts: 3,333	Nope. When you sleep with someone you violate your commitment to your future spouse. __________________ Disgraced he may be, yet is not dethroned, and keeps the rags of lordship once he owned

03-11-2002, 10:57 PM	#132
Ararax Elven Warrior Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: NEW JERSEY! Posts: 375	i agree if you know that and think that way but, if someone makes mistakes it shouldnt be held against them __________________ Woah Deep

03-11-2002, 11:11 PM	#133
Rána Eressëa The Rogue Elf Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 1,722	Well, I'll just let someone else debate over that because obviously I don't think the same way as you do, Wayfarer. I don't believe past issues should be judged for future references because people can change. People make mistakes and people make errors, and that's part of the irreversible human nature.

03-11-2002, 11:18 PM	#135
Ararax Elven Warrior Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: NEW JERSEY! Posts: 375	if you believe that to violate your own morals would be evil but you can only judge your self to judge anyone else is pointless and only invites error since we do not know the reasons behind what we see, so i will not judge anyone but as long as the person i marry loves me i cant ask for more cause there is no more to give __________________ Woah Deep

03-11-2002, 11:26 PM	#136
Arian Elven Warrior Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: IL (or from mist world) Posts: 261	Well, Tater, it's true you can fall in love again. But when guy/girl breaks up with you or it was a hard relionship (sp??) then maybe you don't want to go out with guys/girls for a long time. But yes u do fall in love. __________________ "I'm not a immature as I seem, but you got to have fun once in a while."

03-11-2002, 11:30 PM	#137
Ararax Elven Warrior Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: NEW JERSEY! Posts: 375	takes me about 15 minutes afterwards to develope a crush but about 2-6 months to fall in love again __________________ Woah Deep

03-11-2002, 11:37 PM	#139
Ararax Elven Warrior Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: NEW JERSEY! Posts: 375	lol crushes last a couple of weeks love last at least a month __________________ Woah Deep

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