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Elf Lord
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Here's the harder aspect. Porn is one of the engines of establishing what is culturally normative. Its influence helps set the rules for dating, dressing, and interacting that affect everyone. As its impact becomes more widespread (through mass media and the web, for two examples) the standards of general behavior are more often modeled on it. This is, in my opinion, and the opinion of many, a harm to the entire society. You may believe (and I won't discuss here how people develop such belief systems) that you are not impacted by the widespread notion that oral sex isn't 'sex' and the impact that behavior has had on young teenagers. You may say that your behavior is your choice, and that if people don't want to do something, they don't have to. You may say that even if young men expect that, and it isn't a big deal, young women still retain choices. And that would be fine, if it was a level playing field. But the reason 12 year olds can't buy a car or get married is because we, as a society, think they're not ready to make decisions that permanent. Sorry to say, a lot of decisions about sexual activity have even more long lasting effects than car purchasing. Why should they be making decisions in a culture which is constantly sending them this porn-derived message? You may not see, because your basis of comparison is short, how the culture has changed on this issue, and what the impact on us has been. But in my opinion, it constitutes grave harm to you. Like pollution, it has environmental consequences that transcend individual "choice" and, so, is a proper topic for governmental intervention.
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That would be the swirling vortex to another world. Cool. I want one. TMNT No, I'm not emo. I just have a really poor sense of direction. (Thanks to katya for this quote) This is the best news story EVER! http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/26087293/ “Often my haste is a mistake, but I live with the consequences without complaint.”...John McCain "I shall go back. And I shall find that therapist. And I shall whack her upside her head with my blanket full of rocks." ...Louisa May |
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Dread Mothy Lord and Halfwitted Apprentice Loremaster
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P. S. Sis, every time I see you talk about 'the liberals', I just have to crack a smile. Good on you for being neither solidly left- nor solidly right-wing. We need more people like that in the world.
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There is nothing wrong whatsoever with either nudity or sex. "Wrong" is when pre-pubescent children are used as models, dressed up as sexually cognizant and intentionally sexually alluring twenty-five year olds, to sell products, using - yes, sex. There is a disappearance of childhood happening right now in modern society; long gone are the days when you could be protected from grown-up sexual innuendo by the grown-ups running the world. I was skimming through this awesome collection of essays entitled
YThe Disappearance of Childhood" which my sister had at her house when I visited her last week - oo, I wish I could remember the author's name, but he made some excellent points.
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Elven Maiden
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![]() The other thing that gets me is people's externalization. Because you're absolutely right. Society is us. It's not like there's this evil spirit inhabiting people that makes them destroy our moral values and our children, some monster to destroy. It's us as society that creates it, and I that's why like i said before, it needs to change from the inside, not be subdued. Last edited by katya : 08-06-2007 at 03:23 AM. Reason: html |
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The stone tops aren't, although I wouldn't buy one. Should the Welsh granite quarries be forced to close because of the indentured labourers enslaved in some Indian quarries? Quote:
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But the other part of this is something like "predominantly used for sexual gratification." And that's the big one for online purveyors of naked pictures. Because, really, we know that no one is looking at or hosting those sites so that the general population can see and appreciate a wide variety of women's shapes and body types. They're just for...self-gratification. Now, I have to say, I'm the jealous type. ![]() But my internet has no filter. And in addition to "vanilla" material, takes about 3 nano-seconds to wind up with 5 screens of more... exotic fare. Upskirts and hidden camera, for example. You no longer have to be drunk at Mardi Gras to find yourself a porn star on a paid site, let alone you-tube. All you have to do is rent the wrong apartment, or try on a dress. Nice to have a Master's degree in Nursing and a wing full of patients whose minds are full of 'Naughty Nursies." Ask someone on a breast-feeding board how many men come along hoping to talk about THAT. Page after page of material sorted by race. Doesn't do much for our progress towards "human race" when "Asian bondage" is practically one word, on the net. When Madonna first showed up, she was a scandal. It may surprise many to hear that dressing like a stripper was unusual, once. ![]() How we wish some of the starlet's today would go BUY underwear to display in public. Because we've moved on from that, Haven't we? Now, I happen to be in favor of both nudity and sex. That's one of the reasons I don't like seeing them treated this way, any more than people who "love horses" generally enjoy recipes for them. I just don't think they're wholesale activities.
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That would be the swirling vortex to another world. Cool. I want one. TMNT No, I'm not emo. I just have a really poor sense of direction. (Thanks to katya for this quote) This is the best news story EVER! http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/26087293/ “Often my haste is a mistake, but I live with the consequences without complaint.”...John McCain "I shall go back. And I shall find that therapist. And I shall whack her upside her head with my blanket full of rocks." ...Louisa May |
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Heres an interesting article someone posted on another site about the porn issue...
The Porn Myth Its interesting because it seems to have the opposite worry about porn from what we are seeing here. Far from being a sky is falling phenomenon that is leading to the creation of millions of rape crazy sickos keen on hurting women. Instead, according to Naomi Wolf, it seems to be creating a standard that makes it HARDER for men to find an interest in real live females in an intimate way. Its causing an everything is normal mentality that makes the normal imperfections of real females more of a problem then they were apparently pre-internet. Personally, I think the truth lies somewhere in between and porn will not be the end of our society…
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Again, the argument you are making is that since buying a car or getting married is forbidden to minors, then buying a car or getting married should be forbidden to adults.
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Glendower: I can call spirits from the vasty deep. Hotspur: Why, so can I, or so can any man; But will they come when you do call for them? "I like pigs. Dogs look up to us, cats look down on us, but pigs treat us as equals."- Winston Churchill |
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That would be the swirling vortex to another world. Cool. I want one. TMNT No, I'm not emo. I just have a really poor sense of direction. (Thanks to katya for this quote) This is the best news story EVER! http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/26087293/ “Often my haste is a mistake, but I live with the consequences without complaint.”...John McCain "I shall go back. And I shall find that therapist. And I shall whack her upside her head with my blanket full of rocks." ...Louisa May |
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![]() I would guess that many opinions on "prostitution" draw more on Richard Gere and Julia Roberts than Aileen Wuornos.
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That would be the swirling vortex to another world. Cool. I want one. TMNT No, I'm not emo. I just have a really poor sense of direction. (Thanks to katya for this quote) This is the best news story EVER! http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/26087293/ “Often my haste is a mistake, but I live with the consequences without complaint.”...John McCain "I shall go back. And I shall find that therapist. And I shall whack her upside her head with my blanket full of rocks." ...Louisa May |
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Dread Mothy Lord and Halfwitted Apprentice Loremaster
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No, that was the general aim of what you were saying; I am referring to specifically when you implied that we would have to ban nudity from movies if we banned porn.
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Elven Maiden
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Mmm.... I was asking Sis what she thought would be the rules on what goes and why (in an illustrative way..). Basically, if porn is bad because of showing nudity/sex that was recorded on camera (while it should be a private thing, etc.) then regular films that show it are thus bad too. On the other hand, if it's bad because it's sending a bad message to children about sex, then so are other films and should they thus be censored too? Type thing. I was specifically replying to the bit about "Its influence helps set the rules for dating, dressing, and interacting..."
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Elf Lord
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After dealing with people from various backgrounds whose ability to "consent" has been desperately compromised by systematic mistreatment, over years, I'm not so sanguine, any more.That's how I became more interested in the role of the viewer. I think people have to ask themselves, as the audience of this material, why it's okay. I'd like to see the assumptions move. We have a long debate, and people say to me, "Prove that this material isn't okay. Prove to me that removing this material will improve things." And my response to that is, "Life is short. If what you're doing with your time isn't demonstrably positive, you're wasting it." That attitude gives us a quite different list of hobbies, of course. It surely gives us a different list of movies to watch. But the ASPCA will sit on a movie set so that animals aren't harmed during filming a movie. If someone offered to do to animals what is the actual point of many porn films, they'd file a complaint. Consider me the ASPCA for women. I'm filing a complaint. As far as the government goes, ordinary safety conditions on a porn shoot would be good. You'd like union type medical benefits and working hours for the actors, for example. And I think that some form of 'community standard' could still be applied to the material. But I think the content of cable TV should more closely be monitored, like broadcast TV. I think there should be less access for children. And the internet is clearly an insane distributor. Probabaly that should be resolved through taxation. Most of the people here can look forward to inheriting the large costs of this party. The impact on fertility alone will continue to rise. The cost of cancer treatment from sexually transmitted disease. The social costs of generations of people who parent like Britney. I just don't think you'll really want to be left holding the bag, on this one.
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That would be the swirling vortex to another world. Cool. I want one. TMNT No, I'm not emo. I just have a really poor sense of direction. (Thanks to katya for this quote) This is the best news story EVER! http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/26087293/ “Often my haste is a mistake, but I live with the consequences without complaint.”...John McCain "I shall go back. And I shall find that therapist. And I shall whack her upside her head with my blanket full of rocks." ...Louisa May |
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