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Incest is considered wrong because of two things 1) It's a gene-pool nightmare, causing regressive genes to come forward in higher numbers and rates of occurrence 2) We (as animals) are effectively hardwired not to seek a mate too close to our own gene-pool. Pure homosexuality, on the other hand, is (without medical intervention) a genetic dead-end. Same-sex marriage (getting back to topic) is a great way of countering many of the negative stereotypes of homosexuals (males in particular). Specifically those of multiple partners and unsafe sex. Same-sex marriage, not unlike 'straight' marriage, if taken seriously...will reduce the number of partners to one and (providing that both partners are healthy) make sexual contact safe, thus reducing HIV/AIDS transmission rates a great deal. The ABC's (Abstain, Be faithful, Condoms) work for same-sex couples as well as for het couples, eh. |
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It's New Years Day, just like the day before; Same old skies of grey, same empty bottles on the floor. Another year's gone by, and I was thinking once again, How can I take this losing hand and somehow win? Just give me One Good Year To get my feet back on the ground. I've been chasing grace; Grace ain't so easily found One bad hand can devil a man, chase him and carry him down. I've got to get out of here, just give me One Good Year! |
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I am not really sure on the laws, but I don't think the actual act of incest is illegal. Or, if it is, it's like the old sodomy laws that may be on the books, but are never enforced. Basically, in practice, homosexuality is not illegal and neither is incest or polygamy. The law only comes in when the act is not consensual, or it involves minors. Or, if they try to "legalize" the union. So, the question is: If we don't make an act illegal (i.e. homosexual "marriage" off the books as it exists now), why shouldn't we recognize it? The real answer is that it makes a lot of people uncomfortable. My answer to that question is that the government should simply get out of the marriage business. Leave marriage in the social realm only as it already exists now for all kinds of relationships.
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2) Good? Perhaps you should re-read what i was replying to before breathing my words into me. 3) Marriage promotes stability, right? One partner, as opposed to just any partner. Why should this be any different for same-sex couples than for het couples? *Hell, it can only be better considering the divorce rate amongst het-couples as of late* |
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First a thing is not allowed at all. Then gradually it is brought out as something 'not so bad'. It is accepted. Then it's allowed. First you tell people that they may only have sex with a spouse (of the opposite gender), and if they divorce that spouse, they're socially unacceptable. Then, morality slackens, and they may have sex after a certain age, with as many partners as they like (only we reccommend you keep that number to a minimum). Not only this, but if you decide that you don't like the sexual partner that you chose for life--married--you can get a divorce and not be rejected socially. Also, about this time homosexuals start coming out of the shadows. "If it's okay for the rest of the world to have sex with whoever they want, then it's okay for us." It quickly changes to "If they can get married, so can we." Also: Marriage does nothing for commitment. There are couples of my personal aquaintence who have been together for years, faithful and exclusive, who aren't married. They are committed. On the other hand there are many more people of my aquaintence who have been married and divorced multiple times. As the growing statistics (which are brought up quite a bit here) show, the institute of marriage is doing precious little for commitment.
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It's New Years Day, just like the day before; Same old skies of grey, same empty bottles on the floor. Another year's gone by, and I was thinking once again, How can I take this losing hand and somehow win? Just give me One Good Year To get my feet back on the ground. I've been chasing grace; Grace ain't so easily found One bad hand can devil a man, chase him and carry him down. I've got to get out of here, just give me One Good Year! |
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I just thought I'd offer my two cents on a few things that have been said or implied.
I'm gay, but I am not promiscuous. I go out of my way to dress modestly. I can't say the same for 9/10ths of the other men I see on the street, gay or straight. And as for encouraging people to come out who had been supressing the urge... why shouldn't they be encouraged? You can't suppress something like that and be happy. Believe me, I tried for years, and it makes you physically ill and you start to become ashamed of who you are to the point that you're ready to kill yourself to escape that. Or, in the case of most of the men I met on a Catholic support board, you marry a woman. Oh, or you start considering the slightest thought of another man as a sledgehammer to your soul. I know not all men end up like that, but it certainly seemed a good majority of them ended up like that. It is not. just. about. sex. It's an urge to have the companionship and unconditional love that you have from someone to where you'll do things for them that you'd rather not do, and be involved in their interests when you would rather be home watching TV. Sex is a part of that, but considering how many people just go and have random sex, and then the people who are in relationships where they cannot have sex for medical reasons, etc.... I fail to consider it the defining factor. And believe me, I've seen both sides of the argument quite well considering that I live in an Ultra-conservative 100% Right Wing Republican family of traditional Roman Catholics. |
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I don't care what animals are gay, or not. Since when do we take our orders from dogs?
I believe that God made laws that rein in certain natures, whether it is "natural" (impulsive, whatever) to do it or not may be beside the point. I guess that pretty much ends this discussion without going into the evolution/creation debate....
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I would like your opinion on gay marriage.
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I think it should be allowed, since I have yet to hear an argument that suggests to me that it would hurt society in any way.
I believe it would likely be of great help and comfort to those who have been living together as a couple but been unable to get actual recognition of that fact, and get the benefits few though they might be, that the law provides for married people. |
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Is it a Tridentine Mass? One doesn't often find a Novus Ordo Mass where the priest faces the altar. I'm glad that's what you mean; I've actually heard "traditional" applied both to cultural Catholics, and to your average "Glory and Worship" "Breaking Bread", or Hausen mass. If I may ask, do you still consider yourself a traditional Catholic, or a Catholic? Quote:
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