06-28-2006, 09:33 PM | #701 |
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Part of the continuing problem is exactly that. Different meanings and/or usage by posters for the same word or phrase. It leads to tension and havoc if not clarified up front. Try it.
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Anyway, I'm afraid what you claim it is for doesn't make much sense, since the thread was founded by a supporter of gay rights, but not someone who was a wild-eyed liberal (so that what I proposed would be senseless as well). I think rather the purpose is for people to discuss this issue, and to have serious and open dialogue, striving to understand different opinions on this topic. Quote:
Anyway, we do tolerate homosexuality. I'm afraid you are misusing the word. And again, do you think that it is fair to portray yourself as "normal" and everyone who disagrees with you on this issue as "religious zealots"? Do you really think the division on this subject is so simple? I would remind you, the Marquess of Queensbury was an agnostic, who wrote that "no Christian Mummeries" were to be read at his funeral. Quote:
2) I assume you are using "tolerate gay people" to mean A) teach everyone that there is nothing wrong with homosexuality, and B) allow same-sex unions. If you mean something different, correct me. However, based on this definition of the phrase, I don't by any means believe America will fall as a nation or political institute. Quote:
By the way, everyone: Do you consider it offensive for a straight person to call a homosexual person "gay"? I read on some website that it was okay for gays to call themselves that, but if a straight person did it, it was a very offensive term. That seems quite wrong to me, and very contrary to my experience, and I'm just wondering: is my perception skewed? Also, if so, what would be a suitable substitute? Quote:
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06-29-2006, 01:06 PM | #703 |
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Gwai, I made a point of using the word zealot. By that I mean the lunatic fringe, not ordinary religious folk who are concerned with their own salvation. The zealots are the ones who, I think, aren't able to live with just thinking they are right. They have to run around telling everyone else that they are wrong.
The reason I oppose this thread, and the gay marriage thread, is because now you have three threads in which to discuss religion. There is no other opposition to homosexuality than religion. I think the posts in this thread prove that. The brute prejudice of gay bashers is just male dominant behavior, justified by the statements of religious zealots. What they do is a crime, and any support of a crime through apologetics (usually referenceing the Bible or the Koran) is the second degree of the same crime. For instance, if you see a murder and don't report it, you are a murderer, legally. And if you tell someone else it is ok to kill someone, and they do it, you are again a murderer. That's why Manson is in jail. And if you say that witches should be burned, even if you don't do it yourself, you share the guilt of witch burners. So I say every religious zealot who says that the Bible says gays are evil is giving permission to the boys to keep up their brutal behaviors. Is Reason truly the king of the soul? Or aren't we actually governed by the irrational such that Reason is necessary to temper us. And I think my reasoning that is continuing to be conveniently ignored, that non-procreative sex must be a successful survival behavior, is sound. What I think is irrational is the fear of the breakdown of the family if some people of the same sex love each other. So as you can see, it all fits for me. We must temper the irrational, male dominant, gaybashing, homophobic prejudice that is condoned in archaic religious texts with a new rationality of toleration, equality, protection from violence, and education. other notes: Gay is the word. That website sounds dubious. Rome fell because of its own arrogance, and its intolerance was a symptom of it. Thinking one's nation has God on its side even when it commits war crimes is about one step away from the Roman way of thinking, and it is practically asking for the same result. Last edited by Elfhelm : 06-29-2006 at 01:08 PM. |
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STDs resulting from homosexual behavior and from promiscuous heterosexual behavior are a terrible affliction our country and many other parts of the world, especially Africa, experience. Many of those diseases wouldn't be problems if it wasn't for homosexuality. Also, homosexuals often tend to be more promiscuous than heterosexuals, and that kind of morality has a negative impact on society. The Gay Pride marches also tend to be highly explicit in nature. The majority of the homosexuals I've met personally are fixated on sex far more than the majority of the heterosexuals I've met. Those are all things negative for society in general. That goes for heterosexual promiscuity as well as homosexual, but homosexuality seems to be a source of this kind of behavior to a significantly greater extent than heterosexuality. Monogomous homosexuals are not nearly so common as monogomous heterosexuals. Homosexuals also have significantly higher suicide rates than heterosexuals do. I don't buy into the argument that this is the result of persecution they experience partly because one lesbian friend I have told me that she had experienced suicidal thoughts, but she also let me know that in her school, it was actually the heterosexuals who were teased about their sexuality rather than the homos. None of these issues is purely religious or a simple "it's disgusting" approach. I think homosexuality is disgusting and also very sad, because I like homosexual people a lot and I think homosexuality causes significant problems they have to deal with. The issues I've raised above have already been spoken about on this thread before, and responded to, and responses are made to the responses, and response made to those, etc. It's a big debate, obviously, and the issues of diseases, promiscuity and suicide rates have certainly been hacked apart in detail. But even though you think that these arguments I've raised are invalid for various reasons, I don't bring them up to show you that homosexuality is wrong. I'm simply bringing them up to show you Elfhelm and Insidious Rex that the arguments about this issue are NOT all either religious or "it's disgusting" arguments. Perhaps the arguments I pointed out above are flawed- I know you think they are, though I don't. But whether they are or not is not my point. My only point in bringing them up is to show you that the arguments concerning this matter are not all religious. It is either ignorant or strongly biased to say that all arguments on the matter are either religious or "it's disgusting" claims. As I have shown, some of the most commonly raised arguments concerning this matter are of neither of these two varieties. EDIT: By the way, this may very easily seem a cop-out, but I'm going to be leaving for France tomorrow and will be gone for a month, so I won't be able to respond to anyone on this after today.
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Lief, the religious background to everything you said is obvious to me. You state that promiscuity is somehow harmful to society, but you don't say why. You take it as a given. But that is actually a religious opinion. If you study all cultures, and don't simply accept what you are told, you'll find that there have been many successful societies who members were more promiscuous than the Bible allows people to be.
And you have your facts wrong about HIV and Africa. It is mostly women who are suffering there. IR, I'm saying the male dominant behavior "because it's disgusting" is actually a kind of gayness. They are tops that have been twisted by the sickness in our society that abhors tenderness and preaches against affection. They are victims, too. But whether the brutality came first or the religious injunctions, I don't know. It's a chicken or the egg question. |
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Your arguments listed above are all "moral" in nature. Are you saying morality is independent from religion for you?
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Yeah, I think they bash gays because they hate themselves. And they hate themselves because the religious people tell them they are sinful for their secret gay thoughts.
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STDs are one obvious reason why promiscuity is harmful to society, though many people simply take that for granted whether they're religious or not. Perhaps I should have combined that argument with the one I listed first, though.
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wotcha Lief!
[B]edit****[/B] damn ..missed him ... oh well suppose i better go read the thread an al ... Last edited by Butterbeer : 06-29-2006 at 05:40 PM. |
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eh up , he's back on again???
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ok ... bit sketchy but jumping in ala BB of old .... i think you will find the VAST ... i repeat for clarity ,... VAST majority of aids infection in Africa is hetero.
without any agenda here at all - seriously - the Catholic church and stance on condoms is factually the main perp here. ..heh .. just a fact .... i look forward to arguing with any bleeper wants to try this one .. all the best (seriously) BB x Last edited by Butterbeer : 06-29-2006 at 05:49 PM. |
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we talk ABOUT FREEDOM OR LIBERALITY OR JUSTICE OR ETC ETC ....
(OOPS CAPS LOCK) er caps lock ... but ... do you really think this 1st world western perspective applies in Africa? The continent that sends now missionaries into the western world: usa, uk, europe etc etc? Africa if we were (and i do NOT wish to ) ... but if we were to say , is essentially as a fair metaphor as old testament as the West is Capaitalist ... ... you really can eqaute the AIDS pandemic in Africa with homosexuality ?????? ...whichever way you care to come at this, that is clearly one fact that does not add up. simple pure FACT. ...hope that helps guys and girls, best BB x x x Last edited by Butterbeer : 06-29-2006 at 05:56 PM. |
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Yeah, the church forbidding condom distribution. The US insisting on changing texts that recommend condoms to texts that suggest abstinence, and one more truly devious thing. Female circumcision. In the Christian and Muslim parts of Africa where this practice is done, supposedly to discourage female pleasure and to discourage the seeking of pleasure, the HIV cases among women number higher than among men. I would call that an example of a practice, condoned by religion, that is un-natural, and truly harmful to the species.
Of course, I also think killing your artistic people just because they are contrary in nature is unwise. The killing of gays really has always been about shutting up the dissenters, hasn't it? Who was it said the Jews were more reviled than the gays? Oh, it was Gwai. Well, I have yet to meet a Jew who's afraid to tell his own father! |
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You are right. To be fair I must acknowledge that Gwai said:
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But anyway, you seem to have not noted the original context here. You stated that we think that America will fall if you tolerate gays. I asked for a definition of tolerating gays. I'm assuming you do not mean to say that we believe America will fall if we teach that gays have made significant contributions to society, correct? So, in that context, what exactly is it that you mean by "tolerating gays", which people like Rian, Lief, inked, and I, believe will lead to the downfall of America? Elfhelm, I don't think you replied to much of what I said. Could I ask again again: Do you believe that we should respect the (thought-out) opinions of others, and not simply make blanket statements about them and ad hominem arguments?
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Hey BB! Been a while . About to be a while longer too, seeing as I'm about to go absent again. Oh well; it's good to hear from you .
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Your experience has been my experience too, on this. I think that this is largely because non-religious people have worldviews which say homosexuality is ethically okay. Thus they want to accept it, especially in the more liberal culture we live in these days. That desire to be accepting of homosexuality (which also avoids getting you labeled "intolerant" or "bigot") biases people against arguments and data that show homosexuality often hurts people. Of course, one might just as well say that it's actually religious folk that are the biased ones, and I think that's a fair point. Some religious people are just plain biased. Other religious people just connect the dots in a reasonable pathway and thus religion leads them to say homosexuality is wrong. For instance, I might say: Evidence shows compellingly that Christ was the Son of God. Evidence shows compellingly that the Bible is infallibly accurate. Hence if the Bible says that homosexuality is wrong, homosexuality is wrong. Provided the evidence supporting the assumptions is really strong, all this logically follows. Thus religion is a sensible form of evidence. Bias goes both ways, in my view, and I've seen plenty of bias on this from both sides. I don't know how many nonreligious people are out there who object to homosexuality, but I suspect there are plenty of people. That would actually be very interesting to know.
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