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I love the Netherlands too; been there a lot in the past few years.
A Dutch colleague explained why it appears to people who have never been there (or never been outside of Amsterdam) to be ultra-liberal: it is in fact a very conservative place. So conservative that they would rather change the law than have a law that people just ignored. Another Dutch friend, who lives in the UK, nearly had a brain explosion when I told him that it is technically illegal to put nappies in the rubbish (you are not allowed to dispose of human waste in domestic bins). There is no alternative, so into the bin it goes. He couldn't compute that everyone just ignores the law. |
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Y'know, Gaffer, as you said, it all comes down to harm. And a person's conception of what is harmful and what is not harmful comes down to their own particular worldview. Things don't come labelled with an "H" for "harmful" and an "OK" for ok. Each person makes their own decision, and decisions differ. Given my worldview, it makes sense that any marriage outside of one man/one woman is harmful. Given your worldview, it doesn't.
I still think each person should go by their own opinion on the matter, but they better put a lot of thought into it, because it's a very important aspect of a person's life. And an irritated aside - how the liberal media is portraying the proposed amendment that says marriage in the US is between one man and one woman - they keep calling it the "amendment to ban gay marriage". Sorry, folks, read the writing - it is an amendment to define marriage in the US as between one man and one woman. It may have been started in reaction to people trying to make homosexual marriages, but it no more bans gay marriage specifically than it bans polyamorous marriages specifically.
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Listing the disingenuities in that statement:
- it doesn't come down to worldview: I don't think that you really believe that; you believe they are going to hell, don't you? I don't believe it either; I believe that harm can be established with pretty rigorous and objective criteria, none of which have ever been met by any "harm" I've seen put forward by the anti-gay argument. - Liberal media: HA! I've been to about a dozen different countries, read their papers and watched their telly, and your media is the most right-wing agenda-slurping I've seen. - "defining marriage as being between a man and a woman" is a legalese get-out so your side can claim not to be getting at gays specifically. I am sure that you personally are most concerned about preventing me from making an honest marrow of my beloved vegetable, but please don't insult my intelligence by pretending that's what the proposed legislation is about. Sorry to be blunt, but, as you say, this IS important, and causes lots of harm. |
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Bluntness is welcome, Gaffer - it's flaming hate that's useless, IMO.
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Now some people may be using it to shower their hate on gays, but I'm not, and the people I know aren't, because we don't hate gays. IMO, they're people, just like you and me and everyone else. But marriage definitions, IMO, shouldn't depend on who is nice or not. Marriage definitions should depend on what a person thinks is best for society, esp. the more vulnerable members, who in this situation are the children. Hateful people are on both sides, sadly. I'm not one of them, nor are the people I know that think marriage is one man/one woman.
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I still can't get over your hell statement - after everything I've written, Gaffer, do you really, seriously believe that I think all homosexuals are going to hell? I sure hope not! Wow! What a totally wrong conception you have of me, if that's the case!
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Well I think its a matter of time before more and more people recognize this strategy for the naked politically motivated discrimination that it is. I think its simply a matter of time before the states fall one by one on this issue till we are all looking at each other some day and saying "my god did the majority of the population really attempt to BAN gay marriage back in 2006? God that wasnt that long ago at all..."
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I'm thinking of a few too many things being legal there for my taste, but to each his own. ![]()
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Marriage throughout History until now has been about male-female procreative unions. Statistics show that when procreation is contracepted, and when cohabitation is rampant, the tendency to use another person for pleasure and discard them when you're tierd of them increases. This is why Homosexual unions are open unions-allowing for multiple partners and heartbreak after heartbreak. This is why Gays have a high incidence of suicide, and gays on average have a shorter lifespan. Marriages that are not contraceptive have lower divorce rates statistically. Divorce rates go up when contraception is used or cohabitation has occurred outside of marriage. Marriage recognizes that there is a purpose for sex beyond satisfying unbridled lust. The fact that you have to contracept to prevent pregnancy is an indication of one of those purposes. The other purpose of sex beyond procreation is to give oneself to one's spouse in an act of self giving that is also truly life-giving. Homosexual unions are closed to the gift of life, and therefore the procreative potential of the sexual act cannot be realized in such a union because there is no sexual complimentarity between the two persons. You cannot give yourself as a gift to another if you are merely using them for your own benefit until you get tierd of them, and the rampant promiscuity prevalent in many homosexual unions doesn't demonstrate a loving, committed relationship where the couple are willing to make sacrifices for one another until death. It bespeaks a relationship that has only one purpose: pleasure for me until you bore me. Infatuation can be mistaken for true Love, but real Love is a gift of self. Giving oneself entirely to another means in hard times as well as in good times. I believe that clause is written into the wedding vows, traditionally. Further, there are people who have recovered from homosexual orientations and had families. Genetic has gotten to be like the insanity plea-its a way of saying it's not my fault-love me or leave me. If someone had a predisposition genetically to pedophillia I don't think people would be as accepting, although there are some dutch scientists who think fathers should unite with their children. Further, in our supposedly tolerant society, Tolerance has become an oxymoron. If I have a position on an Issue, and lots of other people agree, you're tolerant only if you agree with me. If you dare to disagree I'll start calling you names. That kind of tolerance is a blooming double-standard.
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So by your logic should we be banning birth control too?
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I wouldn't go so far as that, fspm. I do believe that birth control is wrong, but I don't think that, as a Catholic, I can merely legislate Catholic morality upon the populace as a whole. (I would legislate monarchy upon the populace as a whole if I had haffa chance, though!) Certain things can be legislated (such as murder, theft, abuse of workers, and, I think, adultery). But we have to remember St. Paul's words "Work out your own salvation with fear and trembling." It is not the job of the government to try to save the souls of its citizens, but to provide for their (primarily temporal) wellbeing. Each of us has to strive to bring himself to heaven; as regards others, all we do is to lead by example, charitably discuss the issues with them, and pray.
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(Hey, treebeardquickbeam and frodo&co, please put some paragraphs in your posts!)
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Just hit the enter key a few times to put in a paragraph and a blank line
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