11-30-2003, 10:55 PM | #1 |
Hoplite Nomad
Join Date: Sep 2001
Posts: 3,931
|
What constitutes sex for you?
Is it strictly coitus?
Or do other "sexual activities" count for you?
__________________
About Eowyn, Does anyone know what her alias Dernhelm means? She was kown as dernhelm because of her exclaimation when she realized that the rider's headgear was heavy and obscured her sight. 'Dern Helm" Culled from Entmoot From Kirinski 57 and Wayfarer. |
11-30-2003, 11:03 PM | #2 |
Quasi Evil
Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: Maryland, US
Posts: 4,634
|
sustained penetration. everything else is sex PLAY.
__________________
"People's political beliefs don't stem from the factual information they've acquired. Far more the facts people choose to believe are the product of their political beliefs." "Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere." |
11-30-2003, 11:15 PM | #3 |
the greg the admin
Join Date: Sep 1999
Location: NJ
Posts: 2,101
|
"SEX" is a vague word. Do you mean sexual intercourse? Or do you want to include sexual acts?
|
11-30-2003, 11:51 PM | #4 |
Banned
Join Date: Feb 2003
Location: I have no idea.
Posts: 5,441
|
IR, don't knock that "sex PLAY". That sex play is good stuff.
What constitutes "sex" to me? I'm with IR on that one, but I think oral sex also falls into that category. |
12-01-2003, 12:15 AM | #5 | |
Hoplite Nomad
Join Date: Sep 2001
Posts: 3,931
|
Quote:
__________________
About Eowyn, Does anyone know what her alias Dernhelm means? She was kown as dernhelm because of her exclaimation when she realized that the rider's headgear was heavy and obscured her sight. 'Dern Helm" Culled from Entmoot From Kirinski 57 and Wayfarer. |
|
12-01-2003, 01:40 AM | #6 |
Elf Lord
Join Date: Jan 2002
Location: Slow down and I sail on the river, slow down and I walk to the hill
Posts: 2,389
|
Interesting this has been brought up, because it's something I've been thinking about in the last couple of weeks.
I see anal, oral and vaginal sex as sex, and everything else is just play, or summat. However, oral sex, to me, isn't true loss of virginity, while the other two are. However, I can't imagine having oral sex before actual sex (and thus, before marriage for me) because it seems just as, if not more, personal.
__________________
“The whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, but wiser people so full of doubts.” –Bertrand Russell |
12-02-2003, 12:23 PM | #7 |
Elf Lord
Join Date: Feb 2003
Location: Ilha Formosa
Posts: 2,068
|
In the immortal words of President Clinton... "I did not have sex with that woman.."
Coital, Oral, Anal count- the sin of Onan??? a maybe.
__________________
Glendower: I can call spirits from the vasty deep. Hotspur: Why, so can I, or so can any man; But will they come when you do call for them? "I like pigs. Dogs look up to us, cats look down on us, but pigs treat us as equals."- Winston Churchill |
12-02-2003, 01:28 PM | #8 |
founder of the color blue
Join Date: Oct 2003
Location: E-Space
Posts: 1,727
|
I'd say that anything physical that ones spouse could consider cheating is sex, because when else does it really matter. S&M counts too, really anything that gets you off. Not porn though. Physical contact type stuff. Oral, Anal, Coital, definitly.
__________________
Well, there it is. |
12-02-2003, 01:39 PM | #9 |
An enigma in a conundrum
Join Date: Oct 1999
Posts: 6,476
|
It depends on what your definition of is, is.
__________________
Vizzini: "HE DIDN'T FALL?! INCONCEIVABLE!!" Inigo: "You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means." |
12-02-2003, 01:58 PM | #10 | |
Banned
Join Date: Feb 2003
Location: I have no idea.
Posts: 5,441
|
Quote:
|
|
12-02-2003, 02:05 PM | #11 |
An enigma in a conundrum
Join Date: Oct 1999
Posts: 6,476
|
Yes I know and I replied to complement the other Clintonism.
Sex is any intimate contact between two people. or in some places a person and an animal...
__________________
Vizzini: "HE DIDN'T FALL?! INCONCEIVABLE!!" Inigo: "You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means." |
12-02-2003, 02:08 PM | #12 | |
Banned
Join Date: Feb 2003
Location: I have no idea.
Posts: 5,441
|
Quote:
|
|
12-03-2003, 03:27 PM | #13 |
Elven Warrior
Join Date: Aug 2001
Location: United Kingdom
Posts: 319
|
In the immortal words of Jerry Seinfeld:
"When the nipple makes its appearance."
__________________
Then hate overcame Fëanor's fear, and he cursed Melkor and bade him be gone, saying 'Get thee gone from my gate, thou jail-crow of Mandos!' And he shut the doors of his house in the face of the mightiest of all dwellers in Eä. |
12-03-2003, 03:38 PM | #14 | |
An enigma in a conundrum
Join Date: Oct 1999
Posts: 6,476
|
Quote:
__________________
Vizzini: "HE DIDN'T FALL?! INCONCEIVABLE!!" Inigo: "You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means." |
|
12-03-2003, 03:57 PM | #15 |
Dread Mothy Lord and Halfwitted Apprentice Loremaster
Join Date: Dec 2002
Location: Thomas Aquinas College, Santa Paula, CA
Posts: 10,820
|
I like Stern's; to me, really, anything beyond kissing or "necking" would qualify.
__________________
Crux fidelis, inter omnes arbor una nobilis. Nulla talem silva profert, fronde, flore, germine. Dulce lignum, dulce clavo, dulce pondus sustinens. 'With a melon?' - Eric Idle |
12-03-2003, 03:58 PM | #16 | |
Dread Mothy Lord and Halfwitted Apprentice Loremaster
Join Date: Dec 2002
Location: Thomas Aquinas College, Santa Paula, CA
Posts: 10,820
|
Quote:
__________________
Crux fidelis, inter omnes arbor una nobilis. Nulla talem silva profert, fronde, flore, germine. Dulce lignum, dulce clavo, dulce pondus sustinens. 'With a melon?' - Eric Idle |
|
12-03-2003, 04:24 PM | #17 | |
Banned
Join Date: Feb 2003
Location: I have no idea.
Posts: 5,441
|
Quote:
|
|
12-03-2003, 04:57 PM | #18 | |
Elf Lord
Join Date: Jan 2002
Location: Slow down and I sail on the river, slow down and I walk to the hill
Posts: 2,389
|
Quote:
On the former: But what is intimate, and too waht point? Holding hands and hugging can be intimate, but "rounding second/third base" can be as well. A lot of things that some people are constituting as "sex", well. I'd say if I participated in something further than kissing/"necking", ie second base or what have you, I'd still be a virgin, whether or not someone calls it sex.
__________________
“The whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, but wiser people so full of doubts.” –Bertrand Russell |
|
12-03-2003, 05:30 PM | #19 |
An enigma in a conundrum
Join Date: Oct 1999
Posts: 6,476
|
BACK TO THE BEGINNING
..it depends on what the meaning of is is.......
__________________
Vizzini: "HE DIDN'T FALL?! INCONCEIVABLE!!" Inigo: "You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means." |
12-03-2003, 06:29 PM | #20 |
Queen of Nargothrond
Administrator Join Date: Feb 2001
Location: Akron, Ohio - USA
Posts: 7,121
|
Um, yeah, um, let's keep it clean folks.
__________________
"Whither go you?" she said. "North away." he said: "to the swords, and the siege, and the walls of defence - that yet for a while in Beleriand rivers may run clean, leaves spring, and birds build their nests, ere Night comes." AboutNewJersey.com - New Jersey Travel and Tourism Guide |
|
|
Similar Threads | ||||
Thread | Thread Starter | Forum | Replies | Last Post |
What constitutes infidelity to you? | afro-elf | General Messages | 10 | 10-11-2003 08:05 AM |