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Wow Hanza, can one have worse timing than that? Cheating on your boyfriend only to find out you're pregnant with his kid . Btw how comes everyone in your year knows you've cheated on him? Wouldn't it have been best not to let it out?
It's understandable that your boyfriend is mad at you but I hope he can act maturely and be supportive after all. He should know better than to let you go through this alone, it's his responsability to be there for you. Is there a counsellor in school that you could talk to? And don't think about the woman who lost her kid, it doesn't make things better. Hope things work out for you Hanza. Chin up
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It is not an easy decision you have to make, Hanza.. But don't feel guilty because of other's misfortune - as Jon is saying, it doesn't make things better. I truly hope you have people there to support you, whatever your decision may be. We are here listening, and we support you as much as we can from this distance.
Take care of yourself, Hanza. It might be very hard now but things get better.
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03-13-2005, 07:58 AM | #84 |
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That is so many levels of suck Hanza, but I guess you don't need me to point that out. I hope that no matter what you decide, you have friends and family to support you. I hope you and your boyfriend can reconcile to support each other in this situation that's bigger than the problems you face. No matter what you decide, you will be a stronger person coming out of this. Most importantly I hope you can confide in your parents. There are some situations where I would absolutely want my parents' support, and this is one of them. However, no one but you and your boyfriend can decide what to do, so don't let anyone boss you around. *Moothugs*
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boyfriend is still being absolutely no help. i asked him today if he would come with me when i have the abortion or whether i was gonna have to go with this guy andrew. i explained how id really like him to come and stuff. but he just text back saying 'go with andrew' sigh Irex i totally hear you. ive mucked up big time and really need to sort myself out. I dont think theres anyway i cant learn from this. and hopefully i will be strogner ont he otherside of all this. millane thanx. i havent told my parents yet no. and im not sure i wil. I know they probably havea right to know and everything its just so hard. my dad would totally flip but i really cant predict how my mum would react. if it gets much worse then i will def tell atleast my mum. jon i think we might have a counsellor at school but i think u have to be reffered to them by a teacher. now all i gotta find is a teacher i trust to confide in... thanks nerdy. ive decided to go through with the abortion. and i appreciate all of your support, il try and keep u updated. and i do believe things can only really get better from here. i mean how much worse can they make my life? *moothugs with nurv* thanku. i really would like the support of my parents but when ur my age u never really quite no how they are going to react to big things like this. going to go to the brook clinic with my friend on friday. have a talk with thema bout wat happens and perhaps organise it all. its all a bit too real and scary. il post any more that happens.
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Feeble rant: Why isn't anyone posting when I want to procrastinate? Erm... yeah... I'm going to go finish that paper now...
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i have a really minor vent - my ex was at the club last night with another guy, and he was ever-so-slightly better looking than me, and when i was walking past them was when i slipped over - imagine my embarassment!
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Is that how you hurt your back? (You're not jealous of his good-looks are you? I'm sure you're an exact replica of Ville Vallo. )
What's everyone looking at? Oh yeah, I'm still here. Right. Paper.
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03-13-2005, 08:05 PM | #90 |
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i managed to blame it on the darkness
cos those underground clubs are quite dark but, hell yeah i am an exact replica of ville i ought to finish off my paper aswell |
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Here's my rant: Even though I know it's spring break, there are enough students unable to return home, or get off campus that I find it very irritating that the bus service has virtually disappeared for these 9 days. I mean, there's no way to get to a grocery store except by walking for a few miles, and it's snowy. No dining halls are open on the weekends, either. I'm fine, but I wish the colelge would be more considerate of people staying on campus. My roomie and some of her friends are international students, and it's highly unreasonable to expect them to get off campus. Gar. I did end up walking to the store today. It wasn't too bad 'cause it had finally stopped snowing, but it was very tiring walking back with the goroceries...I had brought along my backpack and stuck them in there. When I got back to my dorm, I was so exhausted I fell onto my bed and stared at the ceiling for a while. I really miss the reliable bus service of home. Second rant: Why do normal grocery stores sell such horrible food? I had a heck of a time trying to find peanut butter that was only peanuts, and not a melange of chemicals and preservatives and sugar. ick. It seems that in order to buy edible food, I have to go to a whole foods store. And that gets expensive. At least they had some of my favourite tea, and fruits that seemed to have fared well in the store room. (I also want a fridge so I can buy more perishable foods than I can consume in a day.) Last edited by Embladyne : 03-13-2005 at 08:42 PM. |
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03-13-2005, 08:40 PM | #92 |
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IIRC, most uni campuses stay open over holidays in UK, but i won't find out for definite until i start uni in about 1 year and a half
the tricky situation of exes indeed! first time we seen each other for about a year, and he's lookin really good, and i began to regret my decision, until he looked at me, and then gave a little smile, before proceeding to 'cuddle' with his new guy |
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03-13-2005, 09:18 PM | #94 |
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I'm sorry to hear that people have some real problems. Hope everything works out.
My vent is that people have to argue so much in threads. Like, I read through the evolution evidence thread, and it started out interesting, with the giraffes, and all that (the example I thought of was about butterflies. or moths or something, I don't remember^^; ) but then it was a thread about what the thread was about. And that's just stupid. If I had it my way, a serious thread [note- a serious thread. I'm not trying to be a hard-ass or anything saying "stay on topic for chrissake!!" in a more casual thread] would be conducted in a way so that everyone walks away having learned something interesting. Every post would contribute something or ask a question that helped the exploration of the topic. Arguments would take place purely in PMs. It would be, to the observer of the thread, as if they didn't exist. Everyone would be treated with respect, given the benefit of the doubt. It would be a place with no wars, no stealing. Nothing but peaceful days. Eden. |
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Things are really screwed up right now. Everything is falling apart around me, and I can't fix any of it.
What's worse is the fact that I've isolated myself so much in the past that I can't even comfort those around me who need it. I've never been a very good friend, and that's become so evident in the past few weeks that it's making me physically sick. I hate not being able to fix things. I've always been able to fix things, and right now... I feel completely useless.
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Rûd - sometimes I used to feel like that at your age! It passes, believe me!
And people who aren't good friends would never even stop to consider the question - which leads me to suggest you're no such thing - don't be so hard on yourself ok?
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