Teen Abstinence

[azalea]

Originally posted by Sminty_Smeagol
it seems to me that once somebody has gone so far with someone... it's easier to go that far again. It's sort of like an addiction I guess... after a while making out isn't good enough anymore... next thing you know you want to go further again... It's like a cycle. I think the resolution that to somebody who hasn't done something.... what they haven't done seems a bigger deal in their mind then it turns out to be, and nothing totally sates the desire. That doesn't really make sense, hrmm...

But it seems with most people that I know, let's say they've had oral. It would be easy for them to jump right to it in a newer relationship.

I don't know. OT

I find this to be quite insightful and believe it to be true myself. I think you're absolutely right.

In response to your other post about condoms, it's still considered sex because there is

penetration, anyway there is still some skin to skin contact, just not certain parts

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