What constitutes sex for you?

Starr Polish · 12-07-2003, 11:23 PM

Arg...I hate that too.

Not all virgins by choice are "die-hard Christians". Nor am I. I am Christian, but am by no means a "bible beater" or "fundamentalist". I have a gay friend who I have been supporting as he comes out to people. I have piercings (ears) and plan to get tattoos in the future. I swear at times. I don't go to church often because I have a hard time agreeing with their interpretation of Christianity for the most part. I know several who choose not to have sex soley for the reason that 1) they don't want to get/cause pregnancy or contract STDs or 2) they don't want to get that intimate with someone just to lose them later.

I know a lot of "by choice" virgins could easily lose it if they wanted. I know I could, but I choose not to.

Also, I don't try to force my view of "waiting" on other people, because I wouldn't want people trying to force me to have sex with my boyfriend.

Smints, not all guys are like that. They're just really hard to find. I got lucky. My boyfriend has told me and other people that sex and other physical aspects of relationships are definitely not an issue when it comes to dating someone, they're just "icing". LoL.

edit: Ruinel, I knew it was a joke, and I'm not offended. Just..yeah. Being weird.

12-07-2003, 11:23 PM	#11
Starr Polish Elf Lord Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Slow down and I sail on the river, slow down and I walk to the hill Posts: 2,389	Arg...I hate that too. Not all virgins by choice are "die-hard Christians". Nor am I. I am Christian, but am by no means a "bible beater" or "fundamentalist". I have a gay friend who I have been supporting as he comes out to people. I have piercings (ears) and plan to get tattoos in the future. I swear at times. I don't go to church often because I have a hard time agreeing with their interpretation of Christianity for the most part. I know several who choose not to have sex soley for the reason that 1) they don't want to get/cause pregnancy or contract STDs or 2) they don't want to get that intimate with someone just to lose them later. I know a lot of "by choice" virgins could easily lose it if they wanted. I know I could, but I choose not to. Also, I don't try to force my view of "waiting" on other people, because I wouldn't want people trying to force me to have sex with my boyfriend. Smints, not all guys are like that. They're just really hard to find. I got lucky. My boyfriend has told me and other people that sex and other physical aspects of relationships are definitely not an issue when it comes to dating someone, they're just "icing". LoL. edit: Ruinel, I knew it was a joke, and I'm not offended. Just..yeah. Being weird. __________________ “The whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, but wiser people so full of doubts.” –Bertrand Russell Last edited by Starr Polish : 12-07-2003 at 11:27 PM.

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