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Elf Lord
Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: Mirkwood, well actually I live in North-west Scania, Sweden
Posts: 9,481
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Attraction - Looks, Manners Or Only Pheromones?
What say ye?.
I think it's about two-thirds Pheromones. |
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Orodruin's Flame
Join Date: Jan 2004
Location: Kananaskis, AB
Posts: 1,194
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9/10 looks.
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High King of Númenórë
Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: Númenórë <--United States of America
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Well, I think initially attraction is on looks, but after that then it's all personality. Anyone who says looks has nothing to do with it is a liar. We are all physically attracted to people in different ways and in different looks of people, but that is the initial thing that makes someone make the approach (unless you have beer goggles on
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'Et Eärello Endorenna utúlien. Sinome maruvan ar Hildinyar tenn' Ambar-metta!' - And those were the words that Elendil spoke when he came up out of the Sea on the wings of the wind: 'Out of the Great Sea to Middle-earth I am come. In this place will I abide, and my heirs, unto the ending of the world.' 'Then Tuor arrayed himself in the hauberk, and set the helm upon his head, and he girt himself with the sword; black were sheath and belt with clasps of silver. Thus armed he went forth from Turgon's hall, and stood upon the high terraces of Taras in the red light of the sun. None were there to see him, as he gazed westward, gleaming in silver and gold, and he knew not that in that hour he appeared as one of the Mighty of the West, and fit to be father of the kings of the Kings of Men beyond the Sea, as it was indeed his doom to be; but in the taking of those arms a change came upon Tuor son of Huor, and his heart grew great within him. And as he stepped down from the doors the swans did him reverence, and plucking each a great feather from their wings they proffered them to him, laying their long necks upon the stone before his feet; and he took the seven feathers and set them in the crest of his helm, and straightway the swans arose and flew north in the sunset, and Tuor saw them no more.' -Of Tuor and his Coming to Gondolin "Oh. Forgive me, fairest of all males of Entmoot...Back down, all ye other wannabe fairest males! Dunedain is the fairest!" --Linaewen ![]() |
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Dúnedain Ranger of the North
Join Date: Aug 2000
Location: The Ruins of Arnor
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Personality and character are important and goes a long way ... but a nice pair of legs helps! ![]()
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Elf Lord
Join Date: Jan 2002
Location: Slow down and I sail on the river, slow down and I walk to the hill
Posts: 2,389
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Short term: Definitely, most definitely, looks.
Long (or attempt at) term: Personality more than anything. If I fell in love with the most attractive man on the planet, attempted a long term relationship with him, and found out he was a misogynist, racist pig, I don't think I'd be staying there very long.
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Dúnedain Ranger of the North
Join Date: Aug 2000
Location: The Ruins of Arnor
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Elf Lord
Join Date: Aug 2002
Posts: 516
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I've become involved with someone over the past year that I meant online. We didn't exchange photos until over a month after we had been corresponding. The attraction I felt from the start was based on shared political views. As the friendship grew, it was fed by a respect for his intelligence and warm heart. When I did see his photo it wasn't what I expected (are they ever? ![]() I've never fallen in love purely on looks alone, and question anyone who claims to -- fallen in lust, definitely.... but not in love. |
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Elf Lord
Join Date: Jan 2002
Location: Slow down and I sail on the river, slow down and I walk to the hill
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Quasi Evil
Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: Maryland, US
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High King at Annuminas Administrator
Join Date: Oct 2003
Location: Wyoming - USA
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High King of Númenórë
Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: Númenórë <--United States of America
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'Et Eärello Endorenna utúlien. Sinome maruvan ar Hildinyar tenn' Ambar-metta!' - And those were the words that Elendil spoke when he came up out of the Sea on the wings of the wind: 'Out of the Great Sea to Middle-earth I am come. In this place will I abide, and my heirs, unto the ending of the world.' 'Then Tuor arrayed himself in the hauberk, and set the helm upon his head, and he girt himself with the sword; black were sheath and belt with clasps of silver. Thus armed he went forth from Turgon's hall, and stood upon the high terraces of Taras in the red light of the sun. None were there to see him, as he gazed westward, gleaming in silver and gold, and he knew not that in that hour he appeared as one of the Mighty of the West, and fit to be father of the kings of the Kings of Men beyond the Sea, as it was indeed his doom to be; but in the taking of those arms a change came upon Tuor son of Huor, and his heart grew great within him. And as he stepped down from the doors the swans did him reverence, and plucking each a great feather from their wings they proffered them to him, laying their long necks upon the stone before his feet; and he took the seven feathers and set them in the crest of his helm, and straightway the swans arose and flew north in the sunset, and Tuor saw them no more.' -Of Tuor and his Coming to Gondolin "Oh. Forgive me, fairest of all males of Entmoot...Back down, all ye other wannabe fairest males! Dunedain is the fairest!" --Linaewen ![]() |
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Manic Cardboard-Box Dweller
Join Date: Aug 2002
Location: In a house
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I guess for me initial attraction is based on looks, in a way. How else are you supposed to know anything about a person before I even meet them? But the only reason for that is because I'm turned off to people easily just from seeing characteristics that reflect a personality that I'm not attracted to. Like I would have a hard time being attracted to a guy with a 'six pack', tans, big muscles/use of muscle-shirts, or any other characteristics or behavior that are probably intentional for attracting people in superficial ways. I mean, that just kind of displays insecurity and superficialness to me, if they want to make their body to impress people, they might also do that with their personality or their actions you know? A superficial way to attract people, and most people who use it are probably pretty shallow as well. If the only way you can get a girl to like you is because of your muscles, or if you would actually want a girl who only liked you for your muscles, or because you act 'cool', you might be a little lacking in the areas that are important to me.
I can be initially attracted to people upon seeing them... sight is the first time you notice them and start forming an opinion of them, before pheromones or personality or anything because you can see someone before you actually talk to them or be near them. But just because someone looks attractive to me doesn't make me want to go talk to them, although visual expression in clothing and jewelry and such could show an interesting character... I guess the look I am most attracted to is kind of tall, a little lanky, dark eyes or icy blue, dark shaggy hair... nice. But once I get to know people, there are beautiful people and there is everyone else (beautiful people as in... beautiful character, beautiful personality, beautiful mind heh). I would need to be attracted to a guy on a mental level before I would really consider myself as 'liking' them. And after all of this preaching, I will admit that I do have my limits when it comes to sexual attraction. No matter how beautiful a person they are, there are limits in my ugly factor tolerance... But thats me.
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the Shrike
Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: San Francisco, CA <3
Posts: 10,647
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Humans have a sucky sense of smell, which is just as well, or we'd be pissing everywhere....
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Banned
Join Date: Feb 2003
Location: I have no idea.
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I went out with a guy that was a body builder once at the same time I was going out with his friend, who was just a 'normal' guy. I went out with the body builder twice, the last time to give him a second chance. He had the personality of a head of cabbage (not even cooked cabbage, mind you!). The other guy was fun, made me laugh and was sincere. Needless to say, I ended up going out with the 'normal' guy for quite a while before he freaked me out with a proposal!
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AngAdan
Join Date: Sep 2002
Location: Boerne, Texas
Posts: 856
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Part of it is simply timing, all humans are cyclical in their propenisity to be attracted.
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Quasi Evil
Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: Maryland, US
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Saviour of Entmoot Admiral
Join Date: Nov 1999
Location: NC/NJ (no longer Same place as bmilder.)
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I don't think it has much to do with natural human pheromones.
In our society, people clean themselves so their natural body odors go away. They even mask them more with horrible new scents. I for one am definitely NOT attracted to anyone because of their perfume. Perfume to me either doesn't bother me (and i don't like it either) or it annoys me and bothers me.
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Banned
Join Date: Feb 2003
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Also, if you eat too much of certain plants or meat it comes out in your pores... and you have a specific smell because of it... a good example is garlic. I was shopping the other day in a store and a woman was behind me at another rack and she reeked of garlic. My roommate, who was shopping with me at the time, had to walk away.
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the Shrike
Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: San Francisco, CA <3
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Corruptor
Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: Jozi SA
Posts: 1,885
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Our sense of hearing on the other hand is pretty accurate, though I have to admit, I often choose not to use this sense.
As for smells, thank ye gods it's not that great! I'd probably be bent over a toilet kotching my lungs out from morning to night as a result of the abundance of cheap colognes permeating the air. (Ruinel - one cologne that drives me wild is Hugo Boss Baldesserini...............can't stand Dior's Fahrenheit - makes me feel ill 'cos it smells like rotten mangoes IMO) |
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