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Half-Elven Princess of Rabbit Trails and Harp-Wielding Administrator (beware the Rubber Chicken of Doom!)
Join Date: Sep 2002
Location: Not where I want to be ...
Posts: 15,254
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doctors found a mass in my abdomen - I'll be gone for ??
Hello dear fellow Mooters!
The doctors found a very large mass in my abdomen yesterday, which explains a lot of my symptoms over the last few months, and they are fast-tracking me to surgery - I was at doctors and labs all day today, getting bits and pieces taken off and tested. I'm guessing the surgery will be next week, because they are "stat"-ing everything. We don't know if it's benign or malignant yet, or where it came from. One bit of possible good news - at first we thought it was on an ovary, which is very bad news, but now they aren't sure. I'll probably find out Monday. I don't know if or when I'll be back. I'm very weak to begin with, and ... well, I just don't know what will happen, so I just wanted to say good-bye either for good or for a while. I'm SO grateful I found the Moot, and the many, many wonderful people here. You guys have meant so much to me, and I treasure so many memories from here - there are so many good and kind and thoughtful and smart and funny people here, and I've learned so much and had so much fun. You guys have been by me in the rough times, and we've had fun together in the good times. And thanks to Ben for starting this wonderful place! Keep the Teacup Cafe open for me, and I thank God for you all. You really have meant a great deal to me. Love, Rian
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. I should be doing the laundry, but this is MUCH more fun! ![]() "How lovely are Thy dwelling places, O Lord of hosts! ... For a day in Thy courts is better than a thousand outside." (from Psalm 84) * * * God rocks! Entmoot : Veni, vidi, velcro - I came, I saw, I got hooked! Ego numquam pronunciare mendacium, sed ego sum homo indomitus! Run the earth and watch the sky ... Auta i lómë! Aurë entuluva! Last edited by RÃan : 04-19-2014 at 02:38 AM. |
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Leaf-Crowned Lord Of Elvenpath
Join Date: Dec 2006
Location: Heaven by the looks of it. Hell by the feel of it.
Posts: 1,052
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Oh dear....
![]() All the best for you and yours. AND: we're expecting you back, don't you forget ![]()
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High King at Annuminas Administrator
Join Date: Oct 2003
Location: Wyoming - USA
Posts: 10,752
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Rian - I'll be praying for you!!!
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The Chocoholic Sea Elf Administrator
Join Date: Jan 2002
Location: N?n in Eilph (Belgium)
Posts: 14,363
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You mean a great deal to us too, RÃ*an.
![]() I'll be thinking of you and hoping to see you again. Best of luck with the surgery. ![]() |
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Elf Lord
Join Date: Nov 2004
Location: The Internet
Posts: 803
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Oh RÃ*an!! I very much hope that everything goes well. You're part of what makes this place so wonderful
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Quasi Evil
Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: Maryland, US
Posts: 4,634
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Rian,
I look forward to seeing you back here... Be strong and be positive and always keep yourself focused on many things. Especially your loves and your loved ones.
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Elf Lady
Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: In the lands where mountains are but a fairytale
Posts: 8,588
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Dear Rian,
Iḿ wishing and praying for the best and I hope to see you again. Thank you for telling us.
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Fëanorophobic
Join Date: May 2004
Location: Between the pages of a book
Posts: 1,417
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Rian, you're one of the people who made the Moot what it is. I'll pray for you.
Stay strong and we'll see you back here soon, hopefully ![]() |
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Half-Elven Princess of Rabbit Trails and Harp-Wielding Administrator (beware the Rubber Chicken of Doom!)
Join Date: Sep 2002
Location: Not where I want to be ...
Posts: 15,254
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Thanks so much, guys! You really mean a lot to me. The Moot has added so much to my life and I really love all of my iFriends here!
Update is that it's some type of ovarian cancer, but rather an unusual kind, which could be good (i.e., I might not need chemo afterwards). But it's as big as a 4-month pregnancy. I've never seen so many doctors work so quickly - my surgery is tomorrow, just a week after I found out. I've been to 3 doctors and had multiple tests, and referrals flying through often only in hours this past week. They'll have to play golf for at least a month to recover from this unaccustomed speed! We won't know if it's malignant or not until surgery - they'll have to biopsy it during surgery. I also get a complete hysterectomy, so my child-bearing days are now definitely over! (which they were anyway). So if I come back, it will probably be quite a while - the mass is so large and solid that they have to use an old-fashioned large incision - ugh!!!! He's guessing 5 days in the hospital, which in these days of drive-thru surgery is pretty unusual. I just gotta say one thing - life with Christ is SO worth it. SO worth it! Just unimaginably deep and rich and full and loving, as well as something that is so difficult, but in such a powerfully good way. God doesn't shy away from big incisions, either, if they're indicated, but he's there for the healing, too, and it's SO worth it. Deep wounds reach deep places in the heart, and the healing and growth I've seen in my life is beyond what I could have hoped or dreamed of. Love is indeed the answer, and God is love. Again, thanks for all of your support and friendship, and for sharing your thoughts and hearts with me over the past few years. I'll never forget the first time I saw the Moot, and how wonderful it was to discuss our beloved Tolkien with other people who actually knew who Frodo and Fingon were. His works have brought such beauty into my life, as have you all.
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. I should be doing the laundry, but this is MUCH more fun! ![]() "How lovely are Thy dwelling places, O Lord of hosts! ... For a day in Thy courts is better than a thousand outside." (from Psalm 84) * * * God rocks! Entmoot : Veni, vidi, velcro - I came, I saw, I got hooked! Ego numquam pronunciare mendacium, sed ego sum homo indomitus! Run the earth and watch the sky ... Auta i lómë! Aurë entuluva! |
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Spammer of the Happy Thread
Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: Helsinki, Finland
Posts: 3,512
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I really hope your surgery goes well and you recover quickly, to find out that it was benign. Thinking of you and your family.
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Salt Miner
Join Date: Jun 2005
Location: gone to Far Harad
Posts: 987
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RÃ*an, you are in our prayers. Hope you are recovering and feeling better.
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Half-Elven Princess of Rabbit Trails and Harp-Wielding Administrator (beware the Rubber Chicken of Doom!)
Join Date: Sep 2002
Location: Not where I want to be ...
Posts: 15,254
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Thank you, thank you, thank you! everyone, for your good wishes and prayers!
I dropped by today for a minute to give you guys an update - I'm between recovering from surgery and starting chemo. I have ovarian cancer, which usually has a very low survival rate, but they caught it very early which is quite unusual. I'm stage 1 level (?) 3 . The tumor was intact and they couldn't see any spread. I had 18 samples from surgery come back negative, but the last one, the abdominal wash, showed cancer cells, so that moved me to the 3. The good thing is that I lost 20 pounds in 3 weeks, though! ![]() Surgery recovery has been slow because of my other health issues, but I finally started feeling a bit better this week. I was able to enjoy my middle son's high school graduation on Friday, and was able to enjoy some time with my oldest son, who came home to visit and rest for 2 weeks before starting work back at college for the summer. I've had some great time with my daughter, with whom I'm very close. She has offered to cut off her long, pretty hair when I start to lose my hair and have to shave my head. She wants to donate the hair to an organization that takes it and uses it for cancer patients, and she wants to have short hair to better match her bald mom ![]() I'm having a quick surgery Tuesday to install a port in a vein for the chemo, and I start chemo Thursday. It will be 18 weeks of once a week treatments. Supposedly the nausea isn't as bad, because they have better nausea drugs - that would be nice. I should start losing my hair in 2 to 3 weeks, at which time I'll just shave my head. I was given a catalogue of all sorts of handy stuff during my chemo "boot camp" - things you just wouldn't think of, like caps to wear at night when you're losing your hair so the hair won't get all over the pillow; caps to wear at night when you're bald so your head won't get cold; stencils to draw in eyebrows so you don't look so much like an alien ![]() ![]() So ... that's the update. I have no idea what's in store, but am glad that God walks through it with me, and has given me many good and loving friends and family members to come alongside, too. ps - I should be bald at Christmas, so I'm planning on dressing up as a light bulb and painting my head red or green! ![]()
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. I should be doing the laundry, but this is MUCH more fun! ![]() "How lovely are Thy dwelling places, O Lord of hosts! ... For a day in Thy courts is better than a thousand outside." (from Psalm 84) * * * God rocks! Entmoot : Veni, vidi, velcro - I came, I saw, I got hooked! Ego numquam pronunciare mendacium, sed ego sum homo indomitus! Run the earth and watch the sky ... Auta i lómë! Aurë entuluva! |
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High King at Annuminas Administrator
Join Date: Oct 2003
Location: Wyoming - USA
Posts: 10,752
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Yay!
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The Chocoholic Sea Elf Administrator
Join Date: Jan 2002
Location: N?n in Eilph (Belgium)
Posts: 14,363
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Glad to hear the news and yay for supportive family! (Your daughter sounds like a real sweetheart.)
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Elf Lady
Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: In the lands where mountains are but a fairytale
Posts: 8,588
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It sounds positive for as far as cancer can be. I'm very grateful that you keep us up to date, Rian!
May all go as easily and pain-free as possible *hugs*
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Love always, deeply and true ★ Friends are those rare people who ask how we are and then wait to hear the answer. ★ Friendship is sharing openly, laughing often, trusting always, caring deeply.
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Quasi Evil
Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: Maryland, US
Posts: 4,634
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Stay strong. And would it be against the rules to have them save your daughters hair so you could wear it? Assuming that wouldnt be weird for you. Would be strongly symbolic if nothing else.
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Princess of the Noldor (and Administrative Empress of the Lone Islands)
Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: Imladris (and sometimes Norway)
Posts: 3,304
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Glad to hear that you have some good news!
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Half-Elven Princess of Rabbit Trails and Harp-Wielding Administrator (beware the Rubber Chicken of Doom!)
Join Date: Sep 2002
Location: Not where I want to be ...
Posts: 15,254
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Thanks guys - it's so nice to see the support here, especially since I can't get out much now.
Rexy, she wants to give her hair to a child's program, which I like (I think it's harder for kids), and it takes I think about 15 or so donations to make a wig, so I think it would just be too much to keep track of, although it would be really, REALLY cool! Besides, I think I'm going the bald route basically, except for if there's an event for the kids where a bald mom would distract from them. I love hats, so I'll get some fun ones. OK, 1 chemo treatment down, 17 to go ... I think there's a few old-timers here that remember that one lady that went thru (IIRC) breast cancer treatments - what was her name? Oh yes, Artanis.
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. I should be doing the laundry, but this is MUCH more fun! ![]() "How lovely are Thy dwelling places, O Lord of hosts! ... For a day in Thy courts is better than a thousand outside." (from Psalm 84) * * * God rocks! Entmoot : Veni, vidi, velcro - I came, I saw, I got hooked! Ego numquam pronunciare mendacium, sed ego sum homo indomitus! Run the earth and watch the sky ... Auta i lómë! Aurë entuluva! |
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Dúnedain Ranger of the North
Join Date: Aug 2000
Location: The Ruins of Arnor
Posts: 892
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Wow, just read this. But then I don't come around much.
May you get through this and come through this stronger RÃ*an. Thoughts, prayers, positive vibes, and all are going out to you.
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Half-Elven Princess of Rabbit Trails and Harp-Wielding Administrator (beware the Rubber Chicken of Doom!)
Join Date: Sep 2002
Location: Not where I want to be ...
Posts: 15,254
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Wow, long time, Snowdog! Nice to see you
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. I should be doing the laundry, but this is MUCH more fun! ![]() "How lovely are Thy dwelling places, O Lord of hosts! ... For a day in Thy courts is better than a thousand outside." (from Psalm 84) * * * God rocks! Entmoot : Veni, vidi, velcro - I came, I saw, I got hooked! Ego numquam pronunciare mendacium, sed ego sum homo indomitus! Run the earth and watch the sky ... Auta i lómë! Aurë entuluva! |
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